Gardener1850
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Maybe she had narcolepsy. Seriously. I mean, taking a nap? As antisocial behaviors go, that ranks right up there with wearing white shoes after Labor Day.
I'm skeptical about the veracity of that Seattle Times article, partly because I don't think that writer interviewed anybody other than her husband and her in-laws--who clearly seemed to despise her, specifically complaining about:
1. She never told them that she illegally changed her identity.
2. She "fought" her in-laws "at every turn". How did she fight them? What did they fight over? Money? Sports teams? Politics? What?
3. During family get-togethers, she would slip away to take a nap. OMFG! We don't know how many times this happened, and we don't really even know the circumstances under which these so-called "naps" occurred, but by God, we're led to believe that this could only be the behavior of a deranged shrew.
What else? DId she routinely fail to rewind movies she rented at Blockbuster? Wipe off the handle of her shopping cart with hand sanitizer every time she shopped? Disagree with her mother-in-law about whether Lite beer tasted great or had less filling?
My grandfather made an art form out of dozing off at family get-togethers, and I'm determined to carry on his legacy.
I agree with large parts of this--the Ruffs were biased in their opinion and we need another source for finding out more about Lori. However I do want to point out that toward the end of her life, when Lori and Blake were going through the divorce--they filed a restraining order against her. She allegedly sent emails making threats against them. At one point I read they suspected she was going to kill them on Christmas Eve, but killed herself instead when no one answered the door. When they went to her house after her death they called police because they were afraid she might have it rigged with bombs. I don't know, maybe the Ruffs blow everything out of proportion (them thinking Lori could be a KGB agent was a bit much IMO) but nevertheless these are actions and stories from people who seemed to fear for their lives. I can sort of see how that experience would make them hate Lori. On top of it all--she ruined their Christmas memories for all time by committing suicide in their driveway. Their family will never be the same. They have a little girl now who will never know her mother and won't now who her mother really was unless someone solves this. I'm not saying their descriptions of her and her behavior are all right and accurate but they had reason to describe her negatively. I can't blame them for being a bit bitter. I do wish so much that the journalist had looked to interview some friends of Lori. They interviewed the pastor who did marriage counseling and only knew her the last couple years of her life when she was a very disturbed person. What about the Pastor that married Lori and Blake? What about her past employers? Texas Business women associates?