SDT ~ we appreciate you being a local and lending insight into the area, as well as bringing info from the family. Websleuths is unlike most sites whereas in order to limit gossip & such, those in the crux of situations - be it family member or friend, professional, local, etc - are asked to be verified, especially if posting information that hasn't been released in the media or by police. This is a very easy process. All you'd have to do is "alert" one of your posts informing you'd like to be verified. A moderator will see that alert pop up in their queue. They will pm or email you asking for a number at which you can be reached. They will call you to verify that you are who you say you are, your relationship to the situation at hand, then it's done. Everything remains private, so no worries at all, ok? After you're verified, under your name it will say "verified" and you'll have more leeway in posting certain information, otherwise you'll have to stick to msm articles or videos. Again, so very very very easy & confidential.
Btw, the alert button is the [!] button on your post, right next to the post number.
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