Tortoise
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A reminder of this message exchange on 30th June 2015.
LL texted a colleague that baby B had moved to a recovery room in the unit.
Colleague: "There's something odd about that night and the other three that went so suddenly."
LL: "What do you mean? Odd that we lost three and in different circumstances?'
Colleague: "I don't know, were they that different?" "Ignore me, I'm speculating."
LL: "C was tiny, obviously compromised in utero. D septic. It's A I can't get my head around."
1. LL has ignored completely her colleagues reference to baby B's collapse being odd.
2. "and in different circumstances" - this is how she gaslights; it's complete manipulation at play, IMO. It makes no sense to infer that it's odd if they were indeed different, so it draws attention to why she would have a need to persuade that they were different.
3. "It's A I can't get my head around" - again this is gaslighting; it's saying put C and D right out of your mind, I'm good authority on this and you don't need to think of them as odd anymore because only A is a puzzle. She's skipped B, so her colleague can forget that B also needed resuscitating.
4. She's the only person on the unit who didn't think four collapses/3 deaths in close succession was odd.
MOO
LL texted a colleague that baby B had moved to a recovery room in the unit.
Colleague: "There's something odd about that night and the other three that went so suddenly."
LL: "What do you mean? Odd that we lost three and in different circumstances?'
Colleague: "I don't know, were they that different?" "Ignore me, I'm speculating."
LL: "C was tiny, obviously compromised in utero. D septic. It's A I can't get my head around."
1. LL has ignored completely her colleagues reference to baby B's collapse being odd.
2. "and in different circumstances" - this is how she gaslights; it's complete manipulation at play, IMO. It makes no sense to infer that it's odd if they were indeed different, so it draws attention to why she would have a need to persuade that they were different.
3. "It's A I can't get my head around" - again this is gaslighting; it's saying put C and D right out of your mind, I'm good authority on this and you don't need to think of them as odd anymore because only A is a puzzle. She's skipped B, so her colleague can forget that B also needed resuscitating.
4. She's the only person on the unit who didn't think four collapses/3 deaths in close succession was odd.
MOO