merrypason
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It’s interesting to try and read these messages with a neutral mind. The Prosecution presumably want to paint a picture of her being overly-concerned or fishing for attention, and they certainly can lend themselves to that sort of interpretation.
But I wonder, if we were seeing these messages out of this context - not knowing that they were sent by a nurse accused of murdering children - if people would still see them as sinister. Or whether it might seem quite normal for somebody to be reaching out to her friends when struggling with a really hard week at work, and quite appropriate that she kept remembering that the parents’ pain was far more than her own.
To me personally, this is a bit of a problem with a lot of the LL-specific evidence so far in this case. The note, the FB searches, the slightly off comments to parents - all of these things could be entirely innocent acts.
If any members of the Jury have done similar things - repeat searched clients on Facebook, documented their panicked thoughts, said the wrong thing in a hard moment at work - they’re likely to take the more sympathetic interpretation.
FWIW I still have no strong opinion as to the guilt of the accused. It really does feel far too early to say.
I do think in any other profession discussing patient or victim details on whatsapp and outside work on unsecured devices would lead to suspension for a time. It's really lacking in empathy to share details about what grieving parents are doing, the size of their baby etc with so many unconnected people - via whatsapp. Some jobs come with the added responsibility of the trust placed in you by people of their most intimate and private moments - so you can't treat it like you would office gossip. You find more private ways of dealing with grief.
If this was a gynae discussing details about your vagina with colleagues not involved in your treatment, would you really be ok with that? Or knowing someone had shared far and wide how traumatised you were by your parent's death? All by text? Or your therapist was sharing details of your childhood trauma with mates on whatsapp when describing a tough week?
To me if someone just told me about these messages or if a colleague of mine was messaging in this way - I would have a word. Nothing to do with being accused of murder. It just paints a picture of someone who doesn't seem to realise her patients and their families are human beings - not just a job lot.