less0305 said:
I read something before everything went private on her brother's myspace account that was a rant from him about how no one from cadie's family was invited to the daughter's birthday party, only the accused's family was there "including the child molester." I wonder what cadie's family knows about the accused's family that would include a "child molester."
I've stumbled across a few postings from people quoting Cadie's posts on the blog of friends where she talks about not having her daughter very much longer. Whether this means she was adopting the child out or surrendering custody to a family member, I don't know.
I don't know if the pedophile mentioned was Gregerson himself. Somehow I doubt it. Gregerson's insane fits of rage and his dislike/fear of having children speaks of someone with untreated child sex abuse issues themselves.
He sounds a lot like my 2nd husband, who had been repeatedly sexually abused form the age of 3 until 7 by a trusted authority figure. The abuse was not revealed until he was in his 40s, when he recovered memories upon learning this man had finally been arrested for child molestation. Throughout my ex's adult life he had been plauged by fits of insane rage and what he described as "always feeling angry", which he never understood. He had always been manipualtive and had difficulty trusting anyone, but following the news his molester's arrest he grew increasingly, wel, I guess psychotic/deluded/paranoid might be good descriptions.
He rarely focused his rage on me, unlike Gregerson and his wife, but there wasn't a house or apartment we lived in that didn't have fist-sized holes in the walls or doors and cabinets that had been wrenched off their hinges. Like most people sexually abused at such a young age, he was emotionally stunted on seeveral levels. He basically expressed his rage the way a 3 year old would, which is extremely frightening coming from a grown man.
I can only imagine how much better/happier my ex's life could have been if his parents hadn't been so clueless (both of them were from emotionally abusive/dysfunctional families themselves) and he had been able to get the necessary therapy early in life, when it could have done him some good. He'll be 50 next year and only finally confessed what happned to me and his family 2 years ago. He refuses to get professional help, though, even after effectively destroying our marriage with his out-of-control behavior.
and:crazy:.
