In 2018, he told Stars Talent that he didn't have time for modeling anymore because he had a "big boy job." So, was this the big boy job? A contract employee at GS?
https://ksltv.com/417600/ayoola-ajayi-the-online-persona/
Ajayi was also a contract employee at Goldman Sachs in Salt Lake, where he worked in IT. He worked at Goldman for the contracted company from September 2017 through August 2018.
Something in that article really hit home for me. It said:
“If you feel uncomfortable, you don’t have to. But that’s not what is taught in, especially a conservative culture,” she said. “Being in a patriarchal society – a conservative, religious culture where women are maybe implicitly or explicitly taught to be nice, to be quiet, to be small, to say ‘yes,’ to not you know, ruffle any feathers, I want that [mentality] to be out of the way. I want that gone because women are strong and Mormon women are strong. We have voices. Let’s honor our history of our foremothers before, let’s use our voices, and let’s also say ‘no,’ as a way to take care of ourselves.”
I grew up in the Mormon culture. People are generally good and have good intentions, but that pressure to serve and please others and be the perfect wife and mother can be stifling. And bad men and women thrive in that culture of naivety and submissiveness. Why do you think the suspect was so obsessed with the Mormon culture?
Imagine about a girl who, for whatever reason, feels guilty saying "no", and even when she does say it, its strained, awkward, forced. A predatory person can hone in on that weakness like a shark to blood.
Now, imagine that same girl wanted to break free from restrictive culture and feel liberated. Maybe she was planning to be bold and do something with a man, even if it wasn't sex.....but that did not end up being enough for him. So she gives a little more and a little more until she reaches her limit. She won't go any further. The man victimizes her.
When she goes to the Emergency Room, they gently urge her to speak to the police. Once she agrees, because she wants to do what is right, the police come into the hospital room and are less understanding of the victim's fragile state. Even the most well-meaning officers are going to be mostly concerned with serving justice and preventing crime, not with making someone feel better.
Police ask her:
Did you tell him you "no"? Yes.
Did you tell him to stop? ...No.
Did you scream for help?... No.
Did he hurt you? ...No.
How did you get away? I froze and after he was done, I pretended like nothing happened so I could make an excuse and leave.
Do you want to press charges? *pause*
...No.