Was this from the family or LE? I only heard that they had dogs the first day. I'm sure it does have to be hard to be in your shoes.
Are you Jen O?
I knew Kelly. I hadn't seen her in about a year but I knew the breakup was going bad. I could NEVER, and I mean EVER wrap my head around her committing suicide. I personally have had my mother and my brother both commit suicide so I definately can read a suicidal person.
Since I am not vetted yet (have sent msg to Tricia) I won't say too much, finding Kelly is important to me, so I do not want to get in to trouble. You are right, the media has stopped putting anything out there regarding her case, I think they liked the simple ans about suicide. My 2 cents is that is hog wash, there is too much that just does not add up. Her friends, family and co-workers do not believe that either. Generally when you love your family and friends as much as she does, you generally leave them some ans and not let them keep hoping. She also knew that committing suicide is a sin and you won't go to Heaven that way and if she didn't know, all the people she talked to about it I am sure would have told her. I also agree with her niece(s) that the media put things out there that were misleading, wrong and/or out of context. It was heart breaking watching everyone at the vigil and when I hugged her sister she started crying and so did I, it is just tough not knowing.It's been 4 days since the last media story (that I can find)... Hope family is up in LE's face on a daily basis making sure they are continuing the search.
Since I am not vetted yet (have sent msg to Tricia) I won't say too much, finding Kelly is important to me, so I do not want to get in to trouble. You are right, the media has stopped putting anything out there regarding her case, I think they liked the simple ans about suicide. My 2 cents is that is hog wash, there is too much that just does not add up. Her friends, family and co-workers do not believe that either. Generally when you love your family and friends as much as she does, you generally leave them some ans and not let them keep hoping. She also knew that committing suicide is a sin and you won't go to Heaven that way and if she didn't know, all the people she talked to about it I am sure would have told her. I also agree with her niece(s) that the media put things out there that were misleading, wrong and/or out of context. It was heart breaking watching everyone at the vigil and when I hugged her sister she started crying and so did I, it is just tough not knowing.
As for ConcernedinVA, I am sorry you were put on the spot, read that post and could not believe it myself. I guess it is just our curiousity and a way to try and get ans. Are you still in contact with the family? If it helps, I let Tricia know that I believe you are known to me based on the info you gave.
God Bless Kelly and her family and all of you for trying to help.
Since I am not vetted yet (have sent msg to Tricia) I won't say too much, finding Kelly is important to me, so I do not want to get in to trouble. You are right, the media has stopped putting anything out there regarding her case, I think they liked the simple ans about suicide. My 2 cents is that is hog wash, there is too much that just does not add up. Her friends, family and co-workers do not believe that either. Generally when you love your family and friends as much as she does, you generally leave them some ans and not let them keep hoping. She also knew that committing suicide is a sin and you won't go to Heaven that way and if she didn't know, all the people she talked to about it I am sure would have told her. I also agree with her niece(s) that the media put things out there that were misleading, wrong and/or out of context. It was heart breaking watching everyone at the vigil and when I hugged her sister she started crying and so did I, it is just tough not knowing.
As for ConcernedinVA, I am sorry you were put on the spot, read that post and could not believe it myself. I guess it is just our curiousity and a way to try and get ans. Are you still in contact with the family? If it helps, I let Tricia know that I believe you are known to me based on the info you gave.
God Bless Kelly and her family and all of you for trying to help.
Since I am not vetted yet (have sent msg to Tricia)
Are you still in contact with the family?
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Could anyone offer us some clarification on this?
From LE
That said, could the day Kelly went missing, Jan. 15th or the up coming w/e days, the 16th and 17th have been an anniversary of some sort that she was maybe finding difficult to face and not tell anyone? Just a thought, I have some days during the year like that and they are extremely hard.
Yes, it was an anniversary. That's why I believe she may have done harm to herself, although I hope I am terribly wrong.
Yes, it was an anniversary. That's why I believe she may have done harm to herself, although I hope I am terribly wrong.
Helping in the search to find Kelly does not mean you have to look with the family, if you are an ex. I am sure the family has their own thing going on so there are a million other places that they haven't looked that could be looked at. Maybe the ex knows of where Kelly used to go more than the family would since she lives in the same city. Regardless of the families hard feelings for the ex, she should do more than just print flyers since she is in the area.