Hey everybody, been checking out the forums recently (lost my job and figured I might do something productive in between sending out resumes!)
Anyway, just some thoughts about the Morgan case...
As I understand it, she was with friends INSIDE the arena and left at some point in the early part of the concert experience to probably go to the bathroom (according to friends)? Now, as a young woman attending a concert at a university center, I probably wouldn't be afraid to head to the bathroom by myself, especially if friends were engaged or otherwise watching the show. That doesn't strike me as odd. What does seem weird to me is that Morgan wound up outside the arena and right now, no one seems to know why. If I was with friends and feeling sick/meeting someone downstairs/wanted a cigarette, I would probably not mind heading out to the lobby or another part of concert venue by myself for a few minutes. However, I definitely would not make plans to leave the arena without informing friends of where I was headed/what was going--especially if I wasn't at my home campus/familiar with the area.
Also, it is interesting to note that at many concerts/sports games/large capacity venues, ticket takers usually inform guests that are leaving, particularly before the main act or event gets underway, that once you leave you cannot be readmitted. I certainly would have asked as well if I was headed outside whether I could be admitted again. If I was meeting someone and knew that info, I probably would have told that person to meet me at the door etc. It seems that if she was meeting someone, that person probably did not have tickets, as they could have met up inside the arena at some point, without her having to leave.
As far as the friends are concerned, I don't necessarily think I personally would have called the police if my friend was missing that night from the prearranged group ride home. I would have tried contacting my friend to see what was up, but if I heard nothing and waiting some time for her, would assume she was with someone else and would then send a text or a message stating to get in touch when she could and leave my own forwarding info (going to a friends house, bar etc.) Had I not heard from her by the next morning (perhaps she spent night at guys house etc., sleeping in after getting drunk at a local bar), I would have then alerted police, probably around the same time the father would have. I'm basing this on my own 25 yr old observations of what I'd do with my own friends.
However, I do think the girls she went with probably have a better idea of why she left her seat than what they are saying on the news. I know that if I was told my friend left to go to the "bathroom" and missed the entirety of a concert, was not answering a cell and wasn't seen again even after the show, I would have most definitely alerted concert authorities at that point to page her to a common location etc. Some news sites are saying that Morgan/friends communicated at some point and Morgan said she was going home with others. As a friend, I would have definitely asked with whom she was leaving, even if it was purely to be nosy and not necessarily out of safety concern ("who are you leaving with? is he hot?" etc.). :crazy:
I also think that a lot of students feel a sense of false safety especially on college campuses...it also wouldn't surprise me if she wound up wondering towards bars or student hangouts once she left the arena and found out she couldnt get back in, with whoever she might have been meeting etc.
I also don't think she has run away or disappeared on her own. I talk to my own parents at least once a day. If I don't talk to them especially for 24 hours after I went out with friends, my parents would definitely assume something was wrong. And it is telling that she has not contacted family either. She seems like a fairly typical college girl...but then again, you never know whats going on in someones head/behind closed doors etc.
VT community has had a rough few years-- the April shooting massacre, the two students found this fall in the camping area, now Morgan. I hope for the school community and for Morgan's family and friends that they have a quick and happy resolution to this case...but as time passes without any real 'clues' or new tips coming in, the worst case scenarios start playing out in my head.
Let me know what you veterans here think...I enjoy reading your theories, ideas and have been very impressed with the involvement and passion many of you exhibit when researching and helping families!