rsd1200
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My different reports, the girl's parents had been trying to address the situation, limiting their time together, limiting phone and social media, and apparently monitoring their social media interaction - so the teens went to faked accounts and secret twitter communications. It doesn't sound as if the girl's parents were ignoring or just hoping it would go away. The sneaking in to their home at night, combined with discovering his heavier than perhaps realized involvement in the whole neo-nazi group, showed a terrible disrespect, hate, anger - he wasn't just proselytizing to their daughter, he was trying to alienate her from them and they had to do something more drastic than they had already been doing. Contacting his parents and the school weren't the first steps they took IMO. We don't know what the boy's parents were trying to do for him yet, they did have him in the private school, the neighbors knew him as very troubled. Most rational kids and adults will accept realities of certain situations, but these two didn't, and him coming armed to their house when he expected them to be asleep shows a planning, and need to control/manipulate that's not normal, but more abusive than anything else. Was he there to push the situation to dramatic confrontation or try to convince her to run away with him? She will have told the police that by now, hopefully. There's true-love-romeo-juliet style and then there's angry-controlling-who-are-you kind. Sneaking in 5am, armed to anyone's home is confrontational. We don't know if she knew he was coming, but when he hurt her parents, she called the police. She didn't side with him, she didn't comfort him - so while she was on phone with police screaming for help for her parents, he shot himself.
I don't know if she thought he'd kill them, if she knew he'd come armed, or just wanted a quickie, etc... but she had to have let him in, against her parent's orders. He didn't reach through that window/door and unlock it himself. He may have been trying to get her to run away with him, or just reaffirming their luvvv. She may have told him no, it's over, sorry, I just let you in to tell you in person, before I saw you at school, in a week, uhm, hmmm. However, if she let him inside that house, she has to accept partial blame for her actions. Just as mine had to accept partial blame for bringing a thief onto our farm, who he'd strictly been told never to bring on the farm, or to our home, and it just so happened about three weeks later, everything stored there went missing. My son has never stolen from us. Never. But he brought a known thief, (a young man I'd know a long time), onto the farm, to help him, and as a result, lots of stuff grew legs and walked away, a few short weeks later. My kid bore some responsibility b/c he brought him on the farm. Had the boy not been brought there, he'd not have known the stuff was there. People have to take responsibility for their own actions. She was in that school for a reason, too. His parents, if they allowed him free access to firearms, and did not try to curb his behaviour, will have to accept their part in this too (that's a no brainer here). I took the shrieking to be the ten year old brother's as the LEO pulled onto the scene. I've not heard her, in particular, on a 911 call.