I understand. I am absolutely against the Nazi propaganda. We should never forget, lest history repeat itself. We have a duty to speak out against such beliefs. I don't know his home-life. The Nazi stuff may have been to generate shock, and attention, (bad attention is still attention) but, I honestly think he'd fallen in with someone online, or gotten onto a Nazi Party / White Supremacist site, and, with his particular problems, he felt welcome. He's probably isolated, few, if any, friends, angry, and he gets into some chat-room... We've seen the banter on certain boards, but we're adults. If the parents are Nazis and have a troubled child, that, imo, could cause them to miss some pretty big red flags. The Nazi Party/White Supremacists are not looking for this kind of media. They want the media attention where someone punches, a peaceful Nazi Party member, who is just fulfilling his right to peaceably assemble. /S
If this were me, I'd have put the skids on it back in the summer, when she was bragging about her new bf's, very flawed, knowledge of history. There would not have been seven months of two hours per night phone calls and I'd take to sleeping in her room with a ball glove and a bat so I could be ready to go to ball practice in the morning.
You would have been the parent from hell That's the not so good thing about the kinds of special schools, especially at their ages - too isolated, no exposure to normal kids - teens thrive on relationships with their peers, and they don't have a great bunch to pick from in such a small, isolated setting. When my younger autistic son was in such a class that was one of my worries I didn't want him only exposed to troubled kids, fortunately the school did good on getting him back into a regular class, socializing with 'normal' kids. I was thrilled beyond compare when he hit 4th grade and did not want others to know he was ever in such a class - not because I wanted him to be ashamed but I didn't want him identifying with troubled kids.