Nightswimmer
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She has NO sense of shame. At all. It is very odd. Armchair psych folkshow does that fit in with BPD? How does it fit in with psychopathy?
The ringing hallmark of narcissism is the ability to contort a wide variety of situations to being about you. Naturally, we all have tendencies for this in our everyday lives to varying degrees. Narcissistic psychopaths, on the other hand, take it much further; they interrupt and/or destroy the lives of others in doing so without having the ability to rationally understand or accept their actions as wrong (or even detrimental).
Arias is a cocktail of warped psychopathology, imo. You can see see the overt narcissism and the pathological liar, with a bit of BPD mixed in. Somewhere deep she just wants acceptance, but clouding that is her lack of identity; that's the BPD. So she acts in manners she feels should gain the acceptance, and to the level she thinks it should garner. If/when she doesn't get it, it fuels an anger that in her unleashes psychopathic behavior. Look at Travis' murder; it was far from cleverly concocted. Buying a few gas cans and leaving a couple of texts/VMs/emails is going to cover your tracks? She never had an alibi - she was 'alone driving, and lost'. Then there's the DNA all over the crime scene, the camera just tossed in the washer, etc. But the rage took over rationality and justified the killing of another, and that it could be gotten away with in such a manner. She only stumbled on the DA story when the first two attempts flopped and she found an angle that no one could physically disprove.
The last part is the shame of it here, imo. While it couldn't be disproven, it couldn't be proven either. So for the duration of the trial the family has had to sit through listening to repeated attacks on Travis' character with absolutely no corroborating evidence that hints to any validity. It's what Martinez focused on in for a good part of his closing, and made Nurmi's rebuttal such a joke (again, imo). There's nothing substantiating any of her claims. I just hope the family can put the whole mess behind them regardless of what the jury comes back with for sentencing. As many on here have said, they've already won - the killer's behind bars and won't be going anywhere for the rest of her life.