Ausgirl wrote:
But seriously - TH protecting his 16 yo from an older guy who lied about his age.. this is somehow an indication of TH's guilt? I can't get my head around that, sorry. I think that's realistically a pretty normal thing for any parent to do.
What I find far more disturbing is an 8yo boy having a serious crush on a 4yo little girl.
In a normal situation, I would agree with you. I would perhaps try to resolve the situation by talking, and not with physical force of any kind. On the other hand youve rather took this situation out of context. I was talking about the control TH has over Amanda. I was talking about this situation in the context of THs incestuous relationship, and how this would have a bearing on CB. Some Fathers control their abused daughters till death. I read a story about a victim who had grown up, married and had children of her own. Almost on his death bed, her father rang her up after 30yrs, and asked her to come and see him before he died. When she got there, he wanted her to perform oral sex with him for the last time. This story can be read in the book:
The Invisible Wound: A New Approach to Healing Childhood Sexual Abuse by Wayne Kritsberg
As far as the relationship between an eight year old boy and a four year old girl go, I dont think there is anything strange there. In the age group between 3 and 9 year olds, Ive seen all sorts of constellations. Ive seen that kids of this age are quite flexible in their relationships and manners, boys play with dolls, girls play with cars, everything is possible. When they get to the age of 9 to 10, that is when their socialisation really starts setting in. Of course in adverse situations, an eight year old could be sexualized, but in this situation its irrelevant, because CB was a threat anyway.
Were looking for someone capable of beating 3 eight year old boys to death, whether impulsively or premeditated.
The person who is capable of doing this is not a person we would regard as being normal.
The person who did this would most certainly have a severe personality disorder, possibly multiple personality disorders.
Is it normal to sexually/physically abuse children?
No of course its not. A person who is capable of serious sexual/physical abuse against children has a very serious mental disorder.
Sexual/Physical abuse of children is not a mental/personality disorder, it is a symptom of a severe personality disorder.
A paedophile is not just a paedophile, he is probably dissociative, or schizoid, paranoid, histrionic, feels inadequate or inferior, the list is long.
Would you say JKM is just a paedophile, otherwise he is quite normal? Read his full statement.
After reading/hearing the first allegations of sexual/physical abuse against TH, I was sensitized towards the rest of his social behaviour. This is particularly visible in the videos of the Pasdar depositions.
One thing that worries me a lot about TH, is the relative relationship between what perceivably, hurts him, and the punishment he dishes out for it.
Mildred F. knocked at his door and complained. TH broke into her house, sexually assaulted her, and where was it to end? Would he have gone further? Would he have even killed her?
Is that the appropriate way to punish someone for complaining? Mildred F. was an intruder
TH did not leave his home and get away when he new that the Hicks were coming. What did he do? He armed himself with a gun, and waited for them. If he had pulled the gun out before JH jr. had attacked him, you could have called it self defense. How was this going to end? At worst with a multiple of deaths. Not only was he punishing the Hicks, in this case he was the aggressor. In the end he declared himself as the victim. The Hicks were intruders
PH was separating from him. What did he do? Locked Stevie's belongings in the car boot so that she couldnt take them., cut up her clothes with a knife or box cutter?
Jesse the Mexican kissed PH in THs house. TH beat him up in the kitchen. Is that appropriate? Jesse was an intruder and a rival
Stevie was an intruder and a rival in Ths relationship to PH.
Chris B. was an intruder and a rival in Ths relationship to Amanda.
Michael M. was just in the way.
TH is not only a viable suspect, IMO he is the probable suspect.