I still see good reason to doubt the Hicks' motives for throwing Terry under the child abuse bus, for reasons that have already got people ruffled here. I'm not all about particularly caring if I'm disagreed with. I still look at that whole thing side-eyed, and would do so, even if it supported my own pet theory (which I don't actually have..). Amanda and Pam have both reconciled with Terry on and off over the years, which makes me wonder also. It's easy to see them as weak and under his will.. yet, it's not like they wouldn't have had bulk support to get away from him forever, if they wanted to.
Now, people can choose to see that as reasonable questioning, or get all up in arms and start bleating 'sympathiser!" just because I have not drunk their particular brand of koolaid - frankly, I don't give a damn.
But I hope people reading here don't get to thinking that a person cannot possibly disagree with the popular consensus, or they'll get tarred "emotionally invalid" or some such BS. That would be a shame.