I'm "glad" that Darren Martell, Jr. was arrested, in the sense that I'm glad someone is being held accountable for this heinous crime, but I'm heartbroken and furious about Roberta's murder.
When Martell was in custody for public masturbation but hadn't yet been charged with murder, I got a little ahead of myself and posted here what I'd found on his FB pages. My comment was one of the ones admins had to remove. I want to be careful to follow the rules. Am I now allowed to post links to Darren Martell, Jr's FB pages? He has ten different FB accounts. Maybe more, but that's what I've personally found so far.
I spent at least 3 hours down the rabbit hole, going through all of his FB pages, with public posts dating back to at least 2018. He has a surprisingly large amount of content set to "public."
My general impressions of and findings from his 10 FB accounts:
- Martell's emotional problems and relationship failures are a predominant theme. He frequently blames others for the relationships ending, doesn't accept that the relationships are over, etc. There's some junky, awkward poetry he wrote to a woman, begging her to give him another chance. In another post, he complains about an ex-girlfriend allegedly not thinking for herself, and instead letting her family members' opinions sway her, which led to her breaking up with him. (Please realize I'm heavily paraphrasing! His writing has poor spelling, grammar, and sentence structure, and is often crude).
- Simultaneously, Martell admits flat out that he is a "jerk" (he used worse language; I'm toning it down), has an anger problem/temper, and made mistakes that drove people away. Lots of whiny posts about how he wants to be a better person but doesn't know what to do.
- Lots of photos (on one of the accounts) of the marijuana plants he was growing.
- For years, he has intermittently posted covert and overt threats of killing himself.
- He doesn't take responsibility for his crimes and harm to others. He has a whiny post about how a woman was harassing him by falsely accusing him of arson in Essex, and he wanted to tell the police about her harassing him. He writes a lot about how he has changed/is changing/will change, whining about people not believing him or not giving him another chance.
I don't know how the charges against him will play out... but I'm so enraged by him, and hate to think of him being the last person Roberta saw and heard and felt as her life ended. I expect that he will be defensive and whiny and claim it wasn't him, he was set up, or it somehow wasn't his fault, blah blah blaaahhhh. That's what his pattern has been, from what I've seen of his writing over the years.