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I have no strong opinion on juror 5 and see both sides of the debate having merit - it helps, I'm sure, that being over here I lack access to most media you guys see regularly. (True. I could search Nancy Grace out - if I were so inclined.
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In terms of Jodi's parents, I believe that could potentially be a strategy that could backfire on the State. IME, even parents who acknowledge behaviors of their psychopathic children still often veer on the side of giving that child the benefit of the doubt - even disregarding or minimizing vast evidence to the contrary. Denial is often a very strong component of such relationships. They easily could have testified they believe 'abuse' contributed to whatever mental disorder or disease they think she has.
As far as 'mutually dysfunctional relationship', I personally believe a relationship with a cluster B disordered person, and even more so a psychopath, can become that because of the disorder itself. Toxic relationships do exist but I view them very differently than a relationship with a psychopath, in which psychological abuse and manipulation runs so rampant that the person who is the target of such abuse and manipulation often says and does things they normally wouldn't in
any other relationship. (This is just so difficult to explain at times.)
While LaViolette professes Snow White was simply just a catchy title she references her in her own work very often. In her book, she uses Snow White in terms of a conversion theory. She typifies abuse victims as Snow White and in so doing, describes them as compassionate, disempowered, kind, sweet, vulnerable, gullible and absolutely helpless. Snow White, upon leaving an abuser, is compelled by family, friends, and even an 'ignorant' therapist (my term for her implication) to become the Wicked Witch who she equates to strong, manipulative, controlling, and assertive. It's an idea that to me is inadequate an assessment at best, overly simplistic of much deeper dynamics, and at worst could be offensive to abuse victims and survivors.
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think I understand what she intended...I just think it was a very poor example, badly misconstrued, in an inane attempt to portray something much more convoluted than she delved into. Her book is available at Amazon to preview, page 71, should you wish to read it yourself.
And personally I question both her credibility and ethics in all honesty. But that's JMO.