Mrs G Norris
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Here I come, hanging from my limb again.
HEY there's a suggestion for a new smiley emoticon...a smiley hanging out on a limb!
I watched the interrogation/interview of the mother.
My personal opinion based on a lifetime of watching people's body language is that this woman knows how to put on a good show. Whenever people start with the cry/talk I sit up in my chair and listen very closely.
What JA did was horrific, inexcusable and very difficult to even comprehend BUT having said all of that, JA still is a human being with a past.
Watch the video of her as a bridesmaid and she simply has no self esteem in that video. I watched that several times and she's so uncomfortable I had to wonder why.
Then I found the photo of dear old daddy holding her when she was about 3? He's an old biker this guy. Don't know him, don't know if he was a wanna be or a bonafide but Mr. TOUGH liked to show off his arms in cutoff sleeveless shirts.
Don't be fooled by women who say.."Oh her childhood was all cookies and my pretty pony."
My GUESS is that Mr. tough liked to be tough at home, JA was born with a very susceptible personality to begin with and placed in this environment with a mom who perhaps?? has mental problems of her own? And a tough man for a daddy?
I think it's was a ripe garden for fertilizing a BPD with violent, seething problems.
I feel sorry for the JA BEFORE she slaughtered Travis. Not after. Barring complete psychosis we all make our own choices and she made hers.
I agree ... I'm not buying what they're selling at all in regards to life at home with the Arias'. I think there just has to be sexual abuse in her past, as well as emotional neglect, and not the kind where mom says something harsh like 'dry your tears princess' either.