I am so very grateful to all who have responded on this thread. It's nice to just be able to share without debate or judgment huh? Interesting how many folks lurked for a long time because they were intimidated--shout outs and WELCOMES to all newer posters who have stopped by. I remember being seriously hesitant to push that "Submit Reply" button on my first post and how careful I was with my wording! A moment many of us seem to have experienced. I'm still careful with my wording (mostly) but the sleuthers here are topnotch, so smart and so welcoming, and a significant part of what keeps me coming back.
In the spirit of the thread and in the interest of full disclosure I want to add another piece that has kept me interested--it looks like DH and I may not be able to have children ourselves. And to know that someone could put their own child in bags and leave her in the woods to rot, when either of us would give a limb just for the chance of being able to raise a baby together..... well it chokes me up to say the least. I am only one of I'm sure thousands of people who would gladly have taken Caylee in and loved her, nurtured her, supported her--well, you get the picture. This case and HaLeigh's and all the too many others like it just break my heart. Too many Christmas morning pictures not taken. Too many prom pictures no one will ever take. Too many firsts--lost teeth, first pets, first cars, first dates, jobs, wedding photos--that will never exist. And for what? And why?