Hi everyone! I'm a first time poster after poring through the message boards here and at The Hinky Meter. I am not sure what first caught my attention to Rebecca's case but I remember googling her name and came to a wikipedia article that had the details of her being bound and hanged. As sick as it made me, i read up more on the articles online and found myself so engrossed in all the theories surrounding her death. It's SO bizarre and seems very shady to me. There are SO many websites/articles/expert testimonials/documents etc out there on this case-that it is overwhelming at times, but so apparent that many, many people feel there is something wrong here...I just wish that everything comes to light and RZ's family is able to get answers and RZ is able to rest in peace.
Anyway, this particular thread is so interesting to me because it's glaringly obvious that there isn't just ONE thing...in addition to the many other findings regarding unexplained subgaleal hemorrages, forensic mistakes/neglect, and of course the suspicious actions of those who were close to RZ (in both proximity and relationship)...I have several questions and there are several things that stand out to me that make me question her death being a suicide.
1) As mentioned before, her hair being inside the rope. I have long hair as well, and agree that it is instinctive to pull my hair out from under a scarf, hood, necklace, my teacher ID lanyard, etc. It is physically uncomfortable NOT to do so. I fully believe RZ would have done the same, had she committed suicide.
2) If RZ had committed suicide, why would she need a glove(s)? I know that there is a black latex glove mentioned in the list of items from the search warrant. She apparently didn't use it to paint with since she had black paint on her hands/body. Also, I looked up "black latex gloves" and some are medical, some are "adult" related, and some are from boating supply sites like
this or
this. I find it very suspicious that there was only one glove there and there has been no mention of where it came from or if it was tested for dna/fingerprints/foreign material (rope strands,tape residue,paint).
3. There was mention of Rebecca feeling guilt over her lack of supervision during Max's fall/death being the cause for her suicide. While I know I would be consumed with guilt if something were to happen to my children, (actually I already feel that way even if they get a little bump or scratch as it is!) I think people need to realize that Max was a typically developing (meaning he didn't have special needs that required extra supervision), healthy 6 year old boy. I have two 6 year olds (boy/girl twins) and while my home is nothing near as big as theirs was, I am not
constantly following them around! In general, if I go downstairs to cook/clean/work for an extended period of time, I will turn on the tv downstairs or have them bring a high interest toy/game to keep them nearby, however, there have been and will be many times when one or both of them choose to return upstairs (their playroom is upstairs). The same goes for being upstairs. If i hear a crash-boom, I run up to see what happened, and usually it's nothing-but sometimes, they fall, fight, drop things etc. I don't beat myself up over these incidents, but that being said, we have never had a life threatening or God forbid fatal incident. Still, I know that if I need to shower, use the bathroom, take an important phone call, they may be unsupervised for that duration, but at 6 years old, with my home being "kid proofed" as much as possible, I feel comfortable with that. I have to remember too, that accidents can happen anytime. For example, my son rolled off the bed once last summer and I ran up to check on the thud I heard to find him with a pretty bad nosebleed! Poor guy had fallen onto his face
and hurt his nose. I FREAKED out (hubby was traveling for work) and it was late enough in the evening that I wasn't sure who to call. Anyway, he ended up being fine,but my point is that accidents do happen. I wish they didn't and hope and pray that we are live our lives without having to deal with a fatal accident ever!
4. The lack of public response from Jonah Shacknai. He did release a statement about the losses and when asking the AG to review/reopen the case, however, if I was in that position and found out my girlfriend was found hanged with the details we all know of, why didn't he come out and say SOMETHING? ANYTHING? I would be fighting to find her killer! I had NO idea that people committed suicide with bindings to prevent helping themselves. I had only heard about it AFTER reading about this case and that it is apparently not unheard of, but to the average person, if you hear of a loved one committing suicide with bound feet and hands, it would warrant SOME sort of reaction...some state of disbelief or denial that she could have done it herself. Maybe JS is a very private person-after all he didn't make any statements about the loss of his son either (other than the one I mentioned earlier) but in my mind, he had a reason for being silent other than grief.
5. There were 2 knives at the scene-why would RZ need 2? One would be sufficient to
cut the rope-and stranger yet, why not just use scissors? Weren't there a pair of utility scissors in that big ole mansion somewhere? Kitchen shears? The rope wasn't very thick-and while it was probably very strong, as a woman, my first instinct tells me to use scissors rather than a knife, let alone 2.
6.
IF there was a phone call/message about poor Max taking a turn for the worse (although it appears that his condition was grave from the beginning), and THAT call prompted RZ to end her life, wouldn't there be an apology note? A call back to verify his condition? Begging/pleading JS for forgiveness (I am NOT saying she did anything wrong, but, if she was of that mindset (as has been suggested), it would make sense that there was some sort of interaction/reaction from RZ before her elaborate plan took shape).
7. The theory that RZ intentionally hurt Max has also bothered me as a reason for her suicide OR murder. It was proven that Max was NOT suffocated, drugged, or physically rendered unconscious with his autopsy, right? So, if we assume that she pushed him over the balcony or grabbed and threw him over, there would be NO way to know with 100% certainty that he would die from his injuries. In fact, aren't some of the "she murdered Max" theorists claiming that the fall should NOT have produced fatal results? What if she did that and he not only survived, but suffered broken bones, but no loss of consciousness or head/brain injuries. He would tell the police, emt, his father, mother EVERYONE, that RZ tried to hurt him! Also, physically speaking, she was a tiny woman and he was an average-healthy boy. Wouldn't he have fought back? Wouldn't RZ have scratch marks or bruises from Max putting up a fight? I know that my husband and kids have bruises/scratches sometimes from their horseplay-let alone if they were being threatened.
8. (Apologies in advance if this is too personal to discuss) RZ was apparently menstruating. Even IF she had planned to commit suicide after showering, wouldn't she have used some feminine products? I find it very difficult to believe that RZ would have overlooked that detail. She did seem very fit and a bit vain (not a criticism, just an observation). She had implants, tattooed eyeliner and eyebrows, none of those are "everyday" enhancements to me (but then again, I'm in a cozy suburb of Chicago-not in BH or SD, yoga pants and ponytails are high maintenance for some of us here
). Why would she choose to humiliate herself in this manner? I could see this being more believable if she was properly dressed, fully made up, and had downed a bottle of pills. That way, when found, she would be as beautiful in death as was in life...
9. The other crime scene objects that don't seem to have a purpose or look "out of place" to me. The white garbage bag with smears or fingerprints. Why was that needed?
10. The lack of tears. This is purely speculation, however, if I were so distraught that I was ready to take my own life, I know I would be crying! Crying as I tied the ropes, crying as I painted the message, crying as I wrapped a shirt around my mouth as a gag, crying as I hopped to the balcony, and crying as I jumped/leaned over. Was there mention of dried tears or mucous on her face or hands as she wiped them away while cutting the ropes or on any of the materials used? If not, doesn't it seem odd that she carried this out void of any emotion and in a manner that suggests she had ONE focus and went for it without ANY hesitation, regret, doubt? Don't first time suicide attempts usually include some sign of hesitation? I know i have heard of "hesitation marks" when people have slit their wrists or of people being found in a crawling position toward the garage door opener when committing suicide in the garage with a running vehicle. I know there have been suggestions of people binding themselves because they are afraid of trying to fight the hanging, but how would she know to do that unless she researched or experienced it before? And why her feet?
11. The Shacknai mansion was sold and cleared out relatively soon after the deaths. I know it was a "summer home" but, again, if my loved one was found in that manner, I would definitely want to preserve everything in case another inquiry was going to be made. I totally understand not wanting to go back to live there-but getting rid of all the evidence (does anyone know what happened to the furniture?)
12. While I really dislike Dr. Phil-I do find Cyril Wecht to be a very reputable, unbiased, and knowledgeable forensic pathologist and coroner. His findings and professional opinion that RZ's death was more likely to be a homicide than a suicide.
13. The fact that when I mention some of the details of her death to someone who had not heard of it prior has a similar reaction to my won after first reading about it such as a variation of "It doesn't make sense" or "There is definitely a coverup." In other words, it defies common sense and logic. Yes, it IS possible that RZ could have done this to herself, but it seems highly improbable that she did this without help, hesitation, research, or obvious motive.
I feel so sick reading the details on Max and Rebecca's deaths and I feel depressed after thinking about them but I just feel so drawn to this case-it's hard to explain for me. THe only other time I recall being very interested in a murder/death case was the Laci Peterson disappearance/murder case but I was in San Francisco when the story first broke and I know there was a lot of local coverage. Plus, Laci was around my age, and my husband and I were trying to get pregnant around that time so I somehow felt a connection to her.
Rebecca's life story is so different than my own and I have never been in SD. In fact, I stumbled upon her story accidentally after being referred to the Hinky Meter site from one of my mommy message boards that was discussing the disappearance of baby Lisa Irwin. I just feel like a very bad thing has gone down and for whatever reason(s) (police ineptitude/coverup by a wealthy & influential family/ avoiding bad press in a tourist town during our difficult economic times/errors from lack of experience with the investigation/the lack of respect for RZ because she was a minority or had a "bad" reputation (gold digger) or that she was presumed to be responsible for Max's death...in any case, it just doesn't sit right with me for this be wrapped up as a suicide and attempted to be swept under the rug.
I have so many questions too about the case and the testing that was done on the items obtained from the search warrant. I can only imagine just how distraught RZ's family must be...
I just hope that there is some definitive evidence one way or the other, although I am more inclined to believe this was murder.