My grandson started getting himself off to school at age 10 in the middle of grade four. I do need to say he lives in a nice community, walked only a block to school, and there were lots of suburban houses and kids/parents around at the time he left for school. His mom called him every morning to make sure things were okay. The time between when his parents left for work and he was left alone was within community guidelines, and Minnesota is more liberal than some areas. He is now 12, in grade 6, definitely gets himself off to school.
Lots of kids get themselves off to school by age 13. Interesting that this did not seem to be the case with Jayme. Wisconsin has no laws, but kids can definitely be left home alone at age 12.
Jayme would be 13, in grade six/seven and had a caretaker. Interesting...
I find it typical for many parents in rural communities.
I was raised the same. I lived in a very rural area and my aunt lived close to us. I was extremely close to her then and all through my life until she passed away at the age of 92.
I stayed with them until I was 16 but not because I had to continue until that age it's because I wanted to. It was one of the most enjoyable years of my life.
I don't think Jayme staying with a close family member had one thing to do with not trusting Jayme and much more about deeply caring about their daughter.
Jayme had just recently turned 13 and she had always stayed with her aunt and I see nothing unusual about her continuing what she had always done.
I think Jayme is very close to her family and the aunt may have had children of her own around Jayme's age. If so..which I find highly likely imo she would also be very close to her cousins. If Jayme needed anything while her parents were working they knew the aunt would be right there to take care of it such as making sure she had transportation for her after school activities.
I havent read anything even suggesting she didn't want to stay with the aunt who had always taken care of her when her parents were working or anything suggesting they did this because they didn't trust her.
She seems to be a very grounded young girl who was extremely close to her family. That will be a positive in Jayme's life should she be found and returned to her close family members.
Not every child wants to stay by themselves especially when they had always gone to a close family member's home most of their lives.
I think Jayme would be hesitant to all of a sudden stay by herself in her home after years of never doing so.
I dont find Jayme the typical 13 year old found in larger cities or more liberal areas. I dont think she was obsessed with social media either.
Not all of those who just became a teen want to grow up too fast. I just dont see anything that shows me she now all of a sudden didn't want to go to her aunt's anymore.
Jmo