Hi all, I just finally registered here after reading the two threads about these poor women. Truly frightening cases.
I have been involved in the BDSM community for the last 15 years and I'm definitely on the more extreme end of the spectrum. I have met dominants and sadists off of the same sites that Zelich used to find his victims. His profile, to me, looked so innocuous and light weight compared to some. That, combined with him being in law enforcement, might have been how he lured submissives and slaves into thinking he was trustworthy and experienced. Some people look really good on paper but in reality, they're anything but... I'm thinking specifically of a dominant I know who has awards from several national organizations that he brags about and maintains a website about how he'd be willing to house submissives who find themselves in abusive situations but is HIMSELF a predator. It's very hard to know who to trust online, especially when dealing with s&m.
Just for the record, I am a slave and I have been with my Master for six years. He is extremely sadistic. He's done things to me that would make you all squirm. He's chained me up in his home for long periods of time. He's monitored my emails and my phone calls. When I signed up with him, I agreed to no limits slavery- he can do anything he wants to me and I would not fight him on it. Of course, the difference between my Master and Zelich is that our arrangement is consensual, my Master is sadistic but not homicidal, psychopathic or sociopathic. A huge part of the attraction to this lifestyle for both of us is that we both have consented to it. I've willingly given him power over my life and he's willingly taken on that responsibility.
The two of us are both successful business owners in two pretty advanced fields. We're both very social and outgoing and the majority of the world would have no idea about our interests. We both truly love each other, and I would classify our relationship as more healthy than 90% of our friends.
Just a tiny view into the BDSM world. Not all of the women seeking extreme slavery are damaged... I certainly wasn't, and my Master was exactly who I was looking for, and I've never regretted finding him (on CollarMe).
Also, as far as the claim that Zelich had a woman caged in his home for seven years, I would hazard to guess he was exaggerating. On the other hand, my Master has a cage where I've spent some time, and I've grown to actually enjoy being in it, so who knows?
Hope this didn't go too far off topic. I just wanted to point out that not all women looking for extreme slavery are broken, not all sadists are predators, and even extreme slavery like mine really isn't as out of the ordinary as you'd expect it to be. We spend most nights watching TV or going to movies rather than pulling out the whips and chains