MNlady
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But if that is the case, why call 911? 911 is to ask for help for emergencies. Why not just call the doctor, family and mortuary? Why tie up emergency resources that may be needed elsewhere?
IMO, because most people don't know who to call, they just want someone to be there, and your first instinct is to call 911.
It's really frustrating to take care of someone at home who has a DNR and when bad things start to happen and you feel so helpless, hospital and doctor won't take your call because of the DNR. Because they can't help either. I took care of a friend with a DNR. The night he passed away, he was very restless. I was so very tired that I laid down in my room for a half hour to an hour (I was suppose to work the next day too-hospice would come) and he passed away while I was not with him. I called hospice who came to 'pronounce' and then called his brother who called funeral home. So frustrating for the caregiver, but I still wanted and have a DNR for myself. (Which states that IF I can't not be brought back to 'quality of life' to let me go.)