MountainGal33
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I’m just going to keep saying this for those suggesting Gabby was not blameless and contributed to what happened.
We have this myth of the perfect victim - if they aren’t totally angelic and well behaved then they are no longer seen as the victim. But when one person has all the power, the person without power cannot be held responsible in any way for what happens since they have no choice in any of it.
There is nothing she did that that made someone wrap their hands around her throat and squeeze until her life was gone. Not the scratches on his face, not her hitting him, none of it. To say otherwise is the same as saying a rape victim is partially responsible because they were drunk.
Just no. The perpetrator is 100% responsible, always.
It's a very violent and brutal way to kill someone.
Those last 2 mins of life of her life were taken by someone she trusted and loved - when fully proven- more than likely BL (moo).
No doubt, it was a "one sided" love. From what I deduced. But cursory exploration of BL's social interactions prior to them dating will tell you he wasn't much until he met her.
I believe she was the source of his validation. Without her - he was zero and he knew that. (moo)
In wake of the coroner's findings it is so tragically sad to realize that one of the last concluding thoughts for anyone leaving life would be to know that the one person they trusted most intimately had such little regard for the love professed.
I have very little sympathy for BL if any.
It's my opinion you can fake emotions - grief - love - tears - we don't know if BL felt anything truly real even for Gabby.
I don't care what SB said about how distraught he was when he walked out the door...
He's not qualified to talk about anyone emotions. When he himself has displayed nothing but reactive anger in interviews, volatility and somewhat of a bully. Seems his emotional EQ is quite low (moo)
None of us will know if BL had any underlying personality disorders. He was not professionally diagnosed. Perhaps his parents knows, who knows.
But I stand firm in my own opinion:
She was his possession. That's not love.
She paid the price for that.