mentalsolstice
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SB didn't even know DB had Lisa. Married to the guy and doesn't tell him she's pregnant. Oops, well I guess it's out of the bag - she probably admitted to it after the amber alert, like the wine after the video.
I see it as a situation where they broke up and everyone moved on. I certainly can't speak to SB's actions, just to say he was in the military during 2 horrible wars, and perhaps with his having PTSD he made the decision to not be in his son's life. Not knowing more than that I can't speak to his or DB's actions. If he agreed to child support and having DB keep receiving benefits, then good on him. Having been separated from him, I don't know why she would've been required to tell him or his step-mom about her pregnancy with Lisa. I know of several friends of mine who were separated but not divorced, who moved on with their lives, and amicably agreed that they're not obligated to share their personal lives with the other.
In this case it doesn't automatically make SB, DB or JI horrible people who are capable of murder.