I'm hesitant to speak at the moment, but I will answer the best I can.
Susan talked about her prior life in Washington, and how she and Josh were buying the house at Sarah circle. She mentioned it was a HUD and that they had a lot of work to do to get the house in suitable conditions.
I got the impression from her that Josh was very controlling. She would say that "Josh said we can do this or that"...it was always Josh said yes or no. It was never "We decided..."
At that time, a lot of us would tell her that it was her money too, and she should enjoy it. When she got pregnant, she seemed to be happy about it, and I do think she was, but I also think she was worried. It seemed like Josh could never settle on a job, and she wanted to stay at home to raise her kids.
She never mentioned specific games, but I do believe he was into computers, yes. I'm an IT professional, and I can tell you looking at his websites, if he did spend a lot of time online, it wasn't on honing his web development skills.
I did notice in the picture of them at church the day prior, he is holding an SLR camera, which is something I use as well. Being a professional camera, I imagine he has an extensive photo collection. But, I'm also going to wager that he put photos of her on his .org site that intentionally portray Susan as unattractive. She was a very pretty woman and could have done so much better than him. But, she chose him and she was quite dedicated.