BBM. ITA with most of your post. However, I would think if something happened to the person at work your husband was talking about, or God forbid, your husband did something bad or something bad happened shortly after that conversation, it would be etched in your memory. Tony seems to have shrugged this off like it was just a one night stand long ago that he just wants to forget. A child was murdered, by a woman he was sleeping with, who he told that he didn't want girl children. How does he shrug that off and not remember anything?
I do agree with another poster that maybe he sounded this way in the deposition because he didn't want to help the defense. I really hope that's the case, and I sincerely hope that he's a lot better on the stand at trial time. I hope he realizes how serious this situation is and treats it more seriously in court. This isn't a game he can win against the defense, it's a serious situation involving a murdered child.
It was amazing to me how much these friends and acquaintances did not remember. BUT now that I realize they are in their early 20s. TL was 21 - that is younnnnnnnng, and the fact that they smoked grass practically every day (which reduces your memory capabilties to almost nill), then it is understandable.
It's a good thing LE got him when they did because this latest depo is ridiculous. He does not even remember if he put the gas in the tank for KC and he did not. She took it over and LE specificallky asked him that more than once.
It is almost annoying to read because he remembers so little.