I also hope they get the counseling and care they will need later in life. I know as a suicide survivor (My dad, my aunt, and my best male friend of of 10+ years on 1-9-12) childhood trauma carries on and a lot of pain and later in life when they find out the sad details.it really messed me up for a while when my mom told me the story after I turned 18. He was spoiled and lived off his very wealthy parents, murdered his best friend while I was home (and got off on castle law) was a huge drug addict, cheated a good bit, and threatened to take me and my mom with him on his suicide many times before he put the gun to his head. I hated him and suffered immeasurable pain in conclusion until I finally realized that he did indeed love me very much but he suffered major mental issues. He was the youngest by far (his closest sibling is 13 years older) and was raised like a prince) and would be 55 now. Yet he truly did love me, he just had a ton of issues. I hope the kids understand for the rest of their lives it was NEVER their fault and don't face guilt or be treated as pariahs.