natasha-cupcake
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No offense, but KFed is a man. Like many men who haven't had the privilege to be a hands-on dad, he probably needs some help learning how to take care of the boys and having a nanny eases him into the job full-time. I'm willing to cut him some slack here. So far he seems to be doing a better job than Britney.
I kind of agree with you, but I've known men who have handled the challenge very well all by themselves. My brother married a Britney type. They had two children who got in the way of her partying, so she walked out on my brother and left her babies behind when the younger one was 15 months and the older boy 3 years old. My brother became father and mother to both boys and did a great job of raising them. They are now 11 and 13 and both doing great. Of course, my brother was just a working slob and didn't have the money that K-fed has, so a nanny wasn't even a possibility.
Initially, my brother lost his job because he had to take so much time off from work to take care of his kids. They had lots of emotional and health problems at first, no doubt due their mother abandoning them, and my brother always put their needs first (imagine that, Britney!). He struggled financially but eventually put together a home based business so he could earn money and take care of his kids at the same time. It was very difficult for him and he sacrificed a lot. His worthless ex-wife contributed nothing financially and rarely took the time to even visit her babies. My brother loves his kids more than anything in the world and the children are very closely bonded with their dad. I personally don't think much of K-fed, but hope he does right by his kids. They are so innocent. Even though I believe K-fed may have some monetary and/or revenge based motivations in seeking custody, I think he loves his boys and legitimately feels that he can care for them better than Britney.