All Things Britney Spears Part 3

[Masterj]

Kfed's other baby momma has said he a good daddy! Be fair now!

Yes, she is singing that tune now, but that wasn't what she was saying when he and Britney were married.

 

[KatK]

Yes, she is singing that tune now, but that wasn't what she was saying when he and Britney were married.

Well, I would gripe too! Of course it is best if the baby daddy is with the babby momma! That doesn't mean that he isn't a "good" father, just that he isn't good husband material, and maybe somewhat selfish in not considering how his actions will affect his kids' outlooks on life.

 

[FlowerChild]

Well, I would gripe too! Of course it is best if the baby daddy is with the babby momma! That doesn't mean that he isn't a "good" father, just that he isn't good husband material, and maybe somewhat selfish in not considering how his actions will affect his kids' outlooks on life.

If part of being a HUSBAND, includes being a FATHER then a man must be both a good husband AND a good father - they are not mutually exclusive. Being a good father means that you must be a good husband and at least have the intent (and actions) of a man who wants to be married to the mother of his children and give his children a 2 parent home. KFed had an affair with Britney while wife/SO #1 was pregnant!!!!! That is NOT something a "good father" does in MY book. KFed does not support his two older children, his now ex-wife (and baby momma) #2 does that, along with supporting him and THEIR two kids. Not what a "good father" does in MY book.

Perhaps others have different standards but IMO a man must be 1st a good husband (and faithful) to his wife, be a man and shoulder half the burden and responsibilities in the relationship (financial too). Then, if he is that "good husband" to his wife he and his wife may choose together to have a child or children. The man merely adds to his "good husband" by also being a good father to his children...doing all the things required of a good husband AND putting both his wife AND his children before himself...always. One can be a good husband and not be a father, but one cannot be a the BEST father without being a good husband 1st and forever. Neither of KFed's marriages/relationships resulted in children without his help and he now has 4 children whom he cannot support himself. IMO, He isn't a "good" father OR a "good" husband - although I am sure he does love his kids - although it seems right now he loves two of them "more" than the other two????

My Opinion

 

[Filly]

Was KFed not with the woman he fathered the other two children with when he got with Britt? Did that woman then take him back? Another words is this whole clan living off Brittney? See, I call her by first name only like I know her personally. I thought I had the worst radar for men. I'd like to just shake this chick and say "Please, no more. STOP with these guys for a little bit". However I know this don't work. Where are these other two kids?

 

[MagicRose99]

Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good husband... they are two different "hats". A father doesn't stop being a father because of a break up or divorce... he continues to love and support his kids... at least the majority of them do...

 

[deanws]

:twocents: :twocents: I hardly think he was thinking "I know, I'll get this famous person who will be a worthless parent pregnant more than once so I can have the children to raise by myself after the divorce, and I'll make her pay child support!" I more think he was thinking of temporary pleasures when it ended up getting her pregnant. I don't think anyone would want to have children with someone who turns out to be a cruddy parent, just so they can raise the children by themselves, and maybe get child support. Money isn't all that is needed to raise children, and the effort a single person must put in to compensate for the lack of their other parent is huge, and no fun. :twocents: :twocents:

LOL...yeah...keep telling yourself that. He wants the money. He LEFT HIS PREGNANT girlfriend to be with Britt. Yeah...he SOUNDS LIKE A GOOD DAD THAT IS WORRIED ABOUT HIS KIDS!!!

 

[deanws]

IMO KFed is a Hollywood "seed spreader". He goes from woman to woman (richer & more famous each time) and fathers babies - I don't think he is "all that" as a Dad, just ask his OTHER baby mama. Of course he isn't getting $30K (soon to be $70K+) a month to have custody of THOSE kids.... He couldn't even afford to fight for custody without Britney's money paying for it. He sues, she pays, what a bum!

I am sure he loves his kids, but I sure am not gonna nominate him for Dad of the year. KFed needs GET A JOB or accomplish SOMETHING productive aside from being a Dad and living off Britney - right now he's just an unemployed actor/singer/dancer (leech) with no appreciable skills except procreating. He is NOT a role model - what is HE teaching his 2 SONS about being a man or real-life? In a couple of years his sons will be asking "What do you do Daddy?" "Why don't you go to work like other Daddies?" He'll tell them some BS "I'm a producer" lie and then run and drag Britney into court again (using her money) to ask for for $150K a month child support to make himself feel better.

If Britney didn't make $700K a month to his $0 a month, KFed would NOT be trying to get full custody of those kids. If the situation was reversed and HE was the one with the $$$ he'd be happy to leave the kids with her and just send her a check every month....kinda like he did with his LAST wife - except Britney pays the child support for THOSE kids too. Without Britney he couldn't afford TO SUPPORT his 1st family, now she's supporting ALL his kids and he still doesn't have a job. 4 kids and thus far he he has contributed NOTHING except sperm and (highly paid) time.

Sorry, Britney has a LOT of problems and is acting like a spoiled 15 year-old but she's also been working her butt off since she was what, 10?? I just do not buy that KFed is somehow this poor mistreated Daddy - a paragon of virtue who is just doing all this because he cares so much about the boys. Yeah, poor man, barely scraping by - already asking for an increase in the child support because on $360K a year he might have to apply for food stamps and WIC, - I mean come-on, he'll barely be able to afford the gas for the $500K sports car Britney bought him otherwise.

Hmm, think there's room for 2 car seats in that car???

I can hear KFed at the next court appearance now, "Oh snap ... ummm Britney dear, I'm gonna need a Mercedes SUV ... lets see, with a special "traveling" nanny, a driver and a bodyguard that'll be another $10K a month" - "You know I wouldn't ask for myself, but the boys NEED it".

My Opinion

My opinion also flower.

 

[deanws]

Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good husband... they are two different "hats". A father doesn't stop being a father because of a break up or divorce... he continues to love and support his kids... at least the majority of them do...

But you see...kfool doesn't support his kids. Brit caught up his child support for him. He wasn't paying it and Shar was ALL OVER the place saying what a bad father he was. So now she changes her tune? Yeah...right. All he is good for is living off of stupid women who for some reason fall for the goofy looking son of a $(%^8!

 

[OneLostGrl]

Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good husband... they are two different "hats". A father doesn't stop being a father because of a break up or divorce... he continues to love and support his kids... at least the majority of them do...

I disagree... Ideally A good father loves his childrens mother and sets an example for his children how to treat a woman by how he treats their mother.

 

[deanws]

I disagree... Ideally A good father loves his childrens mother and sets an example for his children how to treat a woman by how he treats their mother.

Exactly OLG.:blowkiss:

 

[KatK]

I disagree... Ideally A good father loves his childrens mother and sets an example for his children how to treat a woman by how he treats their mother.

Yes, but that doesn't mean he has to stay married to her. He can still show her respect, and co-parent with her (if she is a worthwhile parent that is) without being in a relationship with her. That is where I was coming from. (I think we actually agree OLG.) To all appearances this is what he is doing with his other baby momma. What is different with Brittney is, her mental illness/drug addiction are precluding a mature, co-operative parenting team.

ETA: This quote below is what I was trying to say. See? Sadly, divorces do happen. That doesn't discharge the responsibility to be a parent to any kids you've made. The roles parameters have changed. (Not so fond of this fact, no, I wish people could stay married, and be civil and mature and constructive and have viable relationships in which they raise their children, but they don't necessarily anymore.)

Being a good father has nothing to do with being a good husband... they are two different "hats". A father doesn't stop being a father because of a break up or divorce... he continues to love and support his kids... at least the majority of them do...

 

[CarpeDiem]

. . . Shar was ALL OVER the place saying what a bad father he was . . .

That's simply not true.

If she "was all over the place saying what a bad father he was", please provide a link.

 

[KatK]

That's simply not true.

If she "was all over the place saying what a bad father he was", please provide a link.

I was thinking more myself that she was calling him out for being a womanizing jerk, and leaving her after he'd promised to be faithful. It looks like he's grown up a little bit and decided to try his best to be a parent to the kids he had with Shar, and with Brittney. I also don't see him going out to spread more of his seed around, so maybe he really has figured out that he shouldn't go making any more? I'm willing to consider that this is so, for now, absent other evidence of his actions that would belie this.

 

[deanws]

That's simply not true.

If she "was all over the place saying what a bad father he was", please provide a link.

She went on TV TWICE saying that he didn't spend time with his CHILD....she was still pregnant with the second one and that he was behind in his child support. It is a FACT whether you want to acknowledge it or not! I didn't even know who the fool was...but I did remember Shar from watching TV Land reruns. Shar also said, when finding out that Brit was pregnant with the second child, that K-fool would be out partying instead of helping with the children....and of course we ALL know that is what happened. Yeah, sounds like Shar thinks a lot of him as a father. LOL!!! I am sorry you didn't see the E-Exclusive Spot, which is where I saw it ...but it was on TV other places as well.

 

[KatK]

It has been years since he left Shar, to hook up with Brittney though. He's grown since then, (at least with regards to actually stepping up to the plate to see to it his kids have a father) and Shar has also gone on the record to say this in the media.

 

[deanws]

I was thinking more myself that she was calling him out for being a womanizing jerk, and leaving her after he'd promised to be faithful.

It might of been this...but it ISN'T what she said. She said he was a bad father, didn't spend time with his child, and was behind in his child support AGAIN. I don't blame her for being mad at him for leaving her. She was pregnant. Again...sounds like a real outstanding father.

 

[CarpeDiem]

She went on TV TWICE saying that he didn't spend time with his CHILD....she was still pregnant with the second one and that he was behind in his child support. It is a FACT whether you want to acknowledge it or not! I didn't even know who the fool was...but I did remember Shar from watching TV Land reruns. Shar also said, when finding out that Brit was pregnant with the second child, that K-fool would be out partying instead of helping with the children....and of course we ALL know that is what happened. Yeah, sounds like Shar thinks a lot of him as a father. LOL!!! I am sorry you didn't see the E-Exclusive Spot, which is where I saw it ...but it was on TV other places as well.

If that's the case you should be able to provide a link. You put words in her mouth, you should back it up. :snooty:

 

[deanws]

It has been years since he left Shar, to hook up with Brittney though. He's grown since then, and Shar has also gone on the record to say this in the media.

The only thing I have heard her say on the E-spot is that she is concerned for the children of K-fool and Britt. She was graceful enough to avoid making any comments of the K-fool and Britt divorce saga. I really like Shar. I think she is a great mom and a good actress. She tends to keep herself and the children out of the media. I think she has done well throughout this whole disaster.

 

[deanws]

If that's the case you should be able to provide a link. You put words in her mouth, you should back it up. :snooty:

I DID back it up!! I provided the TV show where it aired. I can't provide a link to a TV show.
You also KNOW that she was on TV saying this. It was discussed on many posts HERE when all this saga was unfolding.

 

[KatK]

I believe I did post a link to an article in which Shar is quoted as saying KFed was a good father, might be in the other topic about this though. It was some time back. Also, YouTube, or places like TMZ or the program's site might have the video clip in their archives.