Well, it is just a theory. Just like the supporters of her innocence think that the prosecution's whole case is "just a theory," so this is like another theory.
So it's not okay to attribute negative characteristics to her, only positive ones?
"From actual descriptions of the way she lived and what she did, she seems to me like somewhat of an overachiever, a hard worker, team player, not exceptionally talented in any way, mildly insecure as many teenagers are, in good relationships with her sister, mother and a few close friends. Her overwhelming desire in her own words and by her actions was to be independent, to be her own person."
I am not going to ask for any specific references to that, because I realize that it is an acculmulation of things you have read, and I am not about to go and ask you to take the time to reference each point. But likewise, some opinions I may have formed are the result of the overall effect of different things I've read, which I can't point to specific refereces of. It is an accumulation.
Such as, I have noticed that she lies to get out of things. MOO. I have noticed a lot of little lies, not only some big lie. Little lie to get out of this, little lie to get out of that. Throughout the case, and in her book. MOO. I don't think this is just a sudden thing having come about from this case. I think it would be a somewhat subtle pattern in her life, which leads me to........
the point of, we do not know what her family knows about her. Many people can be upstanding citizens, do all the right things, etc.., in public, but then have sides, or issues, to them, which only the closest few know about. I would think her immediate family, as in Mom, sisters, and Dad would be aware of these issues if there are.
Of course, they are not going to say anything in public. Of course, they believe some issues she might have would have nothing to do with this case, or they are independent of what she is going through right now. But they are not neutral, they have clear bias towards Amanda, just like the Kerchers' will have clear bias towards Meredith, it's only natural.
I make another comparison to Jodi Arias case, where even with all the media attention, we have not heard anything about any past issues she might have had, personality-wise, lying-wise, playing-the-victim-wise, getting out of things-wise, etc., etc.. Does that mean she did not have any? No, I don't believe so. It's just that those who know about it, obviously aren't going to talk about it. And she probably did not show her issues in front of her friends, so they might not even know about it. She probably appeared completely normal to everyone. Only the family would know, IMO.
Yet we saw over and over in Jodi's case, little lies here and there to get out of this and get out of that. Lies made up on the spot. Like no big deal. Like it has been a pattern for her throughout her life.
And yet, we have heard nothing negative about her past.
People with issues no matter how small or how big, and everyone has them, they don't normally show it to the outside world, such as school friends, sports teams, etc..
No, I don't think the problem with quoting negative attributes is that they're negative - the problem for me is that they seem to come out of thin air because people are trying to come up with a motivation for her to wish harm. I look for supporting testimony of some kind, and I'm not finding it.
I'm not that familiar with the Arias case, but IIRC there was someone who claimed to be an ex-boyfriend who said she stalked him in the same way:
"HLN host and journalist Jane Velez-Mitchell revealed new details about the Jodi Arias murder case, telling "Extra," "The biggest thing I found out that didn't come up in the trial is that Jodi Arias had stalked another boyfriend before many years before... in pretty much the exact same way that she stalked Travis Alexander and terrorized Travis."