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nojusticenusa I feel for you knowing BC and CL. This must all seem surreal to you.
Every part of me, and of all her other real friends, tell us this is not true about her. I was around her after the murder and she was just as surprised and shocked as the rest of us when things would come out in the news. There was a lot of information about AL that she never knew.
So when you saw that he was wanted in connection with this on that Monday that he was arrested, were you surprised? Or in the back of your mind did you think “oh this could be something he would do?”
She did not know he was a 7 time convicted felon when they married. She did however know he had been in some past trouble for some sort of scam on a company but he told her he had changed. She had no idea of his long criminal past. I realize it was posted on FB but apparently she was blinded by love and failed to do her research. Call her dumb if you will but being dumb does not make one a killer.
I agree being naive doesn’t make you a killer but I do believe she probably knew more about his past than what she told you. It has been posted here, her actual comments to a girl that AL was talking to on IG and CL said in her comment that all AL had ever knew was a life of crime and that he had spent his life in and out of jail. I believe CL posted those comments around July. Perhaps someone else would know.
nojusticenusa I feel for you knowing BC and CL. This must all seem surreal to you.
I think its normal that she would try to protect him and not tell her friends about his background.
I didnt know that AL and Tm actually knew each other either.
I did see on his FB and before hers was removed that they were still friendly. I think when children are involved that is always a positive thing, at least for their sake.From what I have seen of TL he is a very caring father. I'm not sure about his gun obsession or posts. I have never looked at his FB posts and have only been around him a couple of times. What I saw of him was nothing but a caring father and he and CL still had a very good relationship for the most part, set aside the custody battle and his new wife being the reason CL was arrested for the theft by receiving. The new wife knew that CL was about to bring the daughter to TL to get her out of the middle of the AL mess so she called LE and said CL was about to leave Pulaski county. They arrested her to get a statement from her. CL was not leaving the county. She was coming right back after she dropped off the daughter. I think the new wife is a tad bit insecure of the relationship CL and TL still have due to their children.
Nojustice, I am glad you are here. You will bring invaluable insight! I will keep an open mind to the information you bring. I also think it would be beneficial for you to have an open mind and review facts, too, rather than what you think is true. If you read over many, many, MANY thread of people who are "found safe" there is one common thread- family members and loved ones who consistently say "He/ she would neeeeever do that" only to find out that he/ she did exactly that. People only let you know what they want you to know about them. The odds of her not knowing, the police falsely arresting her and the courts stating in a legal document that she tested positive for drugs and all of them are untrue (according to her) are slim to none. I appreciate your loyalty, but don't be blinded so much that you are unable to use some reasoning, as well. I hope none of this comes across as snarky, because it is not. It is sincere and honest, but sometimes it is hard to know what attitude someone has behind a computer. I sincerely appreciate your insight.
AL and CL had a very bad relationship. What the neighbors reported about them fighting is very true. He was not physically abusive but was mentally. Her daughter did not like him and he did not like her. He was very childish and would lie on the daughter to try to come between CL and her daughter. It was not a good situation and CL should have woke up sooner about him.
I will say CL did have a huge lapse in judgment. Putting all of AL’s history aside, she was still the mom of a young girl. AL posted pics on his IG back from January where he was taking her daughter to the doctor. No woman should allow a man they have only known a few weeks or maybe even days be alone with their child and certainly not taking her to the doctor. I just hope he never touched the daughter, if you know what I mean.
We do live in a lynch mob mentality world and that is not beneficial to anyone. I don’t believe even her family would want that because they still deserve answers.
The truth will come out in the end and it will be up to a jury of their peers to decide their fate. In the meantime, I will never believe CL had anything to do with this until I see the evidence.
There are a lot of rumors going around about BC but I would not post them here out of respect for her and her family. I think her co-workers are wrong for the talk I've been hearing around town, if in fact they are the ones running their mouths. Most of the rumors I've heard have reportedly coming from them. Someone correct me on this if I have been misinformed. I do know I witnessed some of them posting on CL FB page myself. It was shameful and in bad taste.
It is very sad that in these situations that even the victim becomes fodder for gossip of every kind. I can’t imagine how painful that would be for BC’s family.
I do feel extremely bad for all of the family of everyone involved. Lives have been ruined for a senseless reason. We could all love someone that could do evil things. I just can’t imagine how you move past things like that. Again, I do appreciate your insight and opinions as well. You are in shock, as well. Does CL have close family that will stand by her through this? I know it was said she had an attorney but I can’t imagine she would be able to afford one to defend her on something like this. Not many people could.
I dont have the link, but I did see that interview yesterday. Her attorney said something like; AL and CL were both very different types of people. He also said that she retained him, as counsel, about a week after AL was arrested, and that while he knew the investigation was taking place against CL that he was blindsided by the arrest. Do you know if CL was aware that they were still investigating her? That would have to be an unnerving situation.I understand how that would look to someone who does not know here or is not close to the situation. Did you happen to see the remarks from her attorney. I can't remember his exact words but it was on KATV 7. Try to find that video and watch it and maybe you will be enlightened by what he had to say about the difference between CL and AL. I know her. I can't explain it but I know she is not capable of any of this. There would be no reason for her to participate. Another friend knows for sure she was at school that evening. I can't speculate on LE or their motives. My guess was as I posted earlier they think she knows something and think by placing her in jail with no bond they will break her. I'm sure they have the best intentions to solve this case. They just don't have the right person. I do however respect your opinion @moonlit
I cannot find the interview with her attorney on katv... does anyone have the link?
Oh, and I have known plenty of people who do drugs, claim they do not and also claim others around them do not (who clearly are!!!). If you are not one to participate in doing drugs, she would certainly hide that aspect from you.
I don’t have the link, but I did see that interview yesterday. Her attorney said something like; AL and CL were both very different types of people. He also said that she retained him, as counsel, about a week after AL was arrested, and that while he knew the investigation was taking place against CL that he was blindsided by the arrest. Do you know if CL was aware that they were still investigating her? That would have to be an unnerving situation.
Yes it is very hard knowing both BC and CL.
CL told me he did not do drugs. The neighbors told me they think he recently did do drugs and had lost about 15 lbs in 3 weeks. I don't know if he did drugs or not but he had passed all his drug tests he is required to take. I did not like him and wanted no part of him. I was not around him enough to know and would never be around drugs myself. If he did drugs I think it would have been something recent but maybe I'm wrong. If he was using drugs then CL was either covering for him by telling her friends he did not do drugs or it was another thing she was blind about. Even after the murder and the posts I saw about him using drugs I confronted her and she denied he used drugs. The few times I was around him and it was brief as I've said he was not someone I wanted to be around, I did not however get the feeling he was using drugs. I could be 100% wrong on that though since I don't do drugs. I did find what he said in his jailhouse interview disturbing.
Do you know if she was aware of his YT channels? Where he posted info on how to steal items. He also had those superman video's that she recorded of him on there as well.