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I do not know how to say this so will just come out with it. I mean no disrespect to Cassie's mother.
But in the video interview JC gave her affect is just plain off putting. Her voice quivers throughout as if she is on the verge of tears or major emotional breakdown and yet no tears fall and her eyes do not fill with tears threatening to fall. At the very end of the video she seems to be crying at least crying sobbing sounds come from her mouth. She then spends approx 30 seconds with her hands over her eyes with sobbing sounds and when she removes her hands her eyes are at last filling with tears. After much squinting a couple of tears (two) actually fall as she describes how hard this has been on her.
Now maybe she just is not a good crier. Maybe she has dry eye syndrome. But the sobs and whimpers and quivers of the voice do not seem to match up with the relatively few tears that finally fell.
I hope this is just a woman who was nervous on camera, who is not comfortable showing her emotion to the world or who has some physiological reason she cannot seem to produce tears that coincide with her whimpers. Because otherwise, she comes across very poorly IMO. The impression I am left with is someone who wants very badly to convey grief but cannot seem to quite pull it off.
I can clearly see why LE is not able to move past either her or her fiance as possible suspects.
I mean no disrespect to JC in this post, but I had to comment and leave Just My Humble Opinion. If I have misjudged, please forgive. I will gladly and quickly apologize.
tlcya, you took the words right out of my fingertips that were posed to enter here essentially what you posted. I will venture to say that surely, Shirley, we aren't the only two who have this same opinion...
I'm just finally snail- :snail: -crawling through this thread, and I saw the interview, and I kept asking, "Where are the tears, JC, where are the tears to match your sadness and desperation?" Initially as well, it seemed to me that she may have been medicated -- possibly and understandably with an anti-anxiety medication or similar -- certainly not uncommon nor unexpected for someone in her situation. Sleeping through the night must be difficult for her, probably from sadness and fearing the worst for Cassie, and possibly fear for her own self from someone who once was close to her. There just seemed to be a disconnect with her feeling what she was saying, but OTOH, she certainly could have had "stage fright," for lack of better words, from being interviewed and knowing possibly thousands of people would see and hear her. LE may be keeping an eye on her, too, and she may have noticed, and certainly that would make her nervous and fearful, too.
Anyway, it just seemed a bit "off" and made me wonder if she may know more than she has shared with anyone -- and she could be scared for her own well-being or for other more worrisome reasons.
Just my observation and opinion.