I do know exactly what I'd do in this situation, since I was molested at age 13 by my uncle (mother's brother). I was too ashamed to report him and it took me years to tell my parents, and I wasn't believed when I did. But I never minimized it, and if I could today, I'd have him prosecuted. He's dead now, I did get the satisfaction of stomping on my grave, and I boycotted his funeral and never let him anywhere near my baby daughter. I never let him have access to me ever again at family functions no matter how hard my family tried to push us together (seating us at the same table, trying to get me to show him pictures, drive him, etc.), even if I risked getting in trouble for it. The money he sent me for my wedding I donated to a woman against rape group! And I got my own therapy as an adult. That's what I would and DID do!!!