ScarlettScarpetta
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What they said was that when it comes to young offenders like this they rarely continue, and since Josh hasn't offended since he likely won't, however .. I don't think anyone can be sure that he stopped offending in his teens considering how keen the family is to sweep everything under the rug.
I don't think he has. I do believe that in this case the statistic holds true. Why? Because if he had done anything to anyone else, we would have heard of it by now.
I just don't think anyone would be silent.
I just see so much oddness about their raising that I can see how that could contribute to this kind of behavior. Afraid to talk about it, afraid to ask questions afraid to express his feelings. Does that make it right? Nope. But I just can see so much around this that it is not clear and dry for me.
My son who is in elementary school just had a sex ed health class for 4 weeks. Just basic knowledge and what happens to boys in puberty, what to expect. We have already talked to him about some things and this was not about intercourse or anything but what it is like for a boy to go into puberty. What is normal for them.
I just don't see that happening for Josh. I think that he was a repressed boy who probably thought sex was a horrible thing and was curious about what girls looked and felt like. In a normal world he would have had a first crush or had kissed a girl .. or other normal things.. but in his world, I don't know.. All those hormones, no outlet...
I am not saying any of it is right. I just cannot take his upbringing and background out of it.
I really feel like if he was a pedophile or a criminal we would see that by now. We would see people crawling out of the woodwork accusing him.