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Actually, there are lots of logical thinking people who believe God's Word in that it IS our duty to forgive others just as he forgave us. It's in the Lord's Prayer...one of the most commonly known scriptures.
However, forgiveness doesn't mean FORGETNESS. I have forgiven many people who have wronged me, but our relationships changed. Now, depending on the circumstances, I would forgive my husband. Circumstances being he came to me and confessed without being outed, he was sincere, etc. I feel that I would owe it to him and my children to at least try, well...because I pledged "for better or worse." But our relationship would change. If it happened again, we'd probably get a divorce, but I'd still forgive him. Forgiveness means to "stop feeling angry or resentful toward (someone) for an offense, flaw, or mistake." Forgiveness doesn't mean condoning or excusing. A lot of people are confusing forgiveness with just ignoring or excusing someone's behaviors. For my personal benefit, for my children, and because I believe it's part of being a Christian, I would stop feeling angry and resentful towards my husband, but he'd still be my EX-husband. MOO
Also... from another post way far back that I didn't quote:
I just wanted to point out that there could never be a "Christian nation" formed out of a southern state where they stoned people. Christians follow CHRIST, and Jesus never stoned anyone. He forgave them. They would be the characters that Jesus denounced in these verses:
“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’ And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’ Matthew 7:21-23