Found Deceased Australia - Elisa Curry, 43, Aireys Inlet, Melbourne, 30 Sept 2017 #1

[they'll get you]

hmmm. I know a lot of doctors. I know a brilliant one (not hubby) who loves his cocaine. Then there's the anaesthetists, who have access to all the good stuff...

Triple faaark!!​

 

[Trooper]

My sentiments too, given my alcoholic ultra marathon runner female friend also has an eating disorder and is paranoid of cameras. She has told me that many of the women she has met through running, have also confessed to having an eating disorder. I remember a lecturer at uni stating that that the amount of runners with eating disorders is believed to be in the vicinity of 50%!!! I don't know where he got that stat from, and this is why i will never forget it (& uni was 20 years ago). 50% is hard to believe...but could be true sadly, with self reported stats and all? I hope not...

eating disorder... there was something about that in her face in that one full face pic... the worried look that people with eating disorders have.. just on the verge of runaway anxiety..


well. gosh.. this makes her sound , now, like a very high maintenance woman indeed. Alcoholic, long distance runner ( the time invested in training ! competing!. ) the diet watching , the money /will dispute with the family, her mothers death.. running two households, a possible eating disorder, and according to legal gossip, fed up with the Mister, and about to call it quits on him... that's a lot of baggage.

 

[vanburger]

One more observation before I get back to the work I'm supposed to be doing!

If the theories around a lonely life, maybe alcoholism and a decline in Elisa's mental health have some substance, I don't think that necessarily points towards self harm, or her deliberately disappearing.

A woman in that state could be viewed as a liability by a successful man who has an image to protect. Especially if the marriage has broken down and he's contemplating losing half his assets and only seeing his kids every second weekend. Or there's a more affable companion on the side, waiting her turn.

 

[they'll get you]

eating disorder... there was something about that in her face in that one full face pic... the worried look that people with eating disorders have.. just on the verge of runaway anxiety..


well. gosh.. this makes her sound , now, like a very high maintenance woman indeed. Alcoholic, long distance runner ( the time invested in training ! competing!. ) the diet watching , the money /will dispute with the family, her mothers death.. running two households, a possible eating disorder, and according to legal gossip, fed up with the Mister, and about to call it quits in him... that's a lot of baggage.

Did the cops check her dashboard for the mother load of Valium yet?

 

[Trooper]

:drumroll:

One more observation before I get back to the work I'm supposed to be doing!

If the theories around a lonely life, maybe alcoholism and a decline in Elisa's mental health have some substance, I don't think that necessarily points towards self harm, or her deliberately disappearing.

A woman in that state could be viewed as a liability by a successful man who has an image to protect. Especially if the marriage has broken down and he's contemplating losing half his assets and only seeing his kids every second weekend. Or there's a more affable companion on the side, waiting her turn.

:drumroll::goodpost:

 

[*Verdigris]

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I'd like to know the source of a hell of a lot of the info that's seeping out, dribble by dribble..

Looks like we ain't gonna be finding out any time soon:

Victoria Police declined to elaborate on the reported alcoholism or confirm who made the report, saying they are unable to comment on medical matters.

http://expressdigest.com/elisa-curry-closed-her-facebook-just-days-before-vanishing/

 

[Trooper]

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Looks like we ain't gonna be finding out any time soon:




http://expressdigest.com/elisa-curry-closed-her-facebook-just-days-before-vanishing/

I get the feeling that the drip feed of info has dried up, that horse has bolted, it's goodnight Vienna, and the fix is in...... .. ..

 

[they'll get you]

One more observation before I get back to the work I'm supposed to be doing!

If the theories around a lonely life, maybe alcoholism and a decline in Elisa's mental health have some substance, I don't think that necessarily points towards self harm, or her deliberately disappearing.

A woman in that state could be viewed as a liability by a successful man who has an image to protect. Especially if the marriage has broken down and he's contemplating losing half his assets and only seeing his kids every second weekend. Or there's a more affable companion on the side, waiting her turn.

Money will do it every time.

 

[Wendy8888]

She doesn't appear to have any girlfriends. men friends, family, off the electronic grid, I mean.. ... what's up with this? .. She had quite a long career in ASIC, she would have former colleagues from her professional life.. other runners, don't tell me she ran alone all the time, her kids mix with other kids , and their mothers at school back in Melbourne, even , should she be the drinking fiend she is made out to be, she would have drinking companions.... of one sort or another, in both her residential locations...

Hell Yeah! I just can’t understand the lack of outcry from her “people” friends, family, extended family, various photos it’s all so vague... so I conclude;

1) the family and friends accept this as suicide and therefore happy for this all to go away without the public embarrassment.
My first husband took his own life, the first thing his mother said was “how do I explain this to my friends and family” she was terribly embarrassed.

2) she has no bio family? And no real friends
Strange, very strange mmmm


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[Trooper]

Money will do it every time.

and surely all the insurance he has on her would have been checked by now.. a considerable amount, I'm thinkin, TGY..... you know how it goes.........

 

[inkpink]

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Looks like we ain't gonna be finding out any time soon:




http://expressdigest.com/elisa-curry-closed-her-facebook-just-days-before-vanishing/

From your link.

There were also ‘family disputes’ about the inheritance of the couple’s large property portfolio, but is not suggested family members were involved in her disappearance.

 

[Trooper]

From your link.

There were also ‘family disputes’ about the inheritance of the couple’s large property portfolio, but is not suggested family members were involved in her disappearance.

may be she was the wealthier one in the duo... on the death of her mother, perhaps , she tipped the scale on the money stakes, and he became the partner with the least.... well. ... that would be uncomfy, not to say infuriating........

 

[iailwa]

Hell Yeah! I just can’t understand the lack of outcry from her “people” friends, family, extended family, various photos it’s all so vague... so I conclude;

1) the family and friends accept this as suicide and therefore happy for this all to go away without the public embarrassment.
My first husband took his own life, the first thing his mother said was “how do I explain this to my friends and family” she was terribly embarrassed.

2) she has no bio family? And no real friends
Strange, very strange mmmm


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i think it's been established she has friends. She was hanging out with three of them that very night. I guess you could call them friends. I hope none of them are murderers

 

[BoysTown]

Hell Yeah! I just can’t understand the lack of outcry from her “people” friends, family, extended family, various photos it’s all so vague...

Will any of these friends/family step out and dispute the allegations of depression or alcoholism?

I'd be pretty upset if someone called my missing friend an alcoholic and it wasn't true? (Or I didn't think it was true?)

 

[inkpink]

may be she was the wealthier one in the duo... on the death of her mother, perhaps , she tipped the scale on the money stakes, and he became the partner with the least.... well. ... that would be uncomfy, not to say infuriating........

Yep. I find it interesting how the husband is now being referred to as a 'non practising solicitor' to a stay at home Mum.

It's almost like Elisa was being heralded too much for being intelligent more so than the husband.

Husband: But what about me, I've been a solicitor.....

 

[inkpink]

Will any of these friends/family step out and dispute the allegations of depression or alcoholism?

I'd be pretty upset if someone called my missing friend an alcoholic and it wasn't true? (Or I didn't think it was true?)

I agree. I think it's a disgrace.

Obviously the husband is happy to go along as well.

 

[they'll get you]

and surely all the insurance he has on her would have been checked by now.. a considerable amount, I'm thinkin, TGY..... you know how it goes.........

Tarred with the same greedy brush eh Troops.

I'm thinking about the lack of outcry from family & friends. Again, back to Allison, you couldn't get a more devoted family than hers. They were at ground zero search headquarters everyday but didn't say anything to protect Allison.

Could it it be the advice from LE is something like "let it go and let him hang himself"?
Which many of them do.....I'm waiting Borce....

 

[tiddles24]

I don't know the severity of Elisa's mental illness, but I come from a family whose Mum battled mental illness for most of her life and it was very difficult to cope with as a child and being the eldest, I had to take on the second mother figure in the family unit because Mum couldn't cope with everyday life, so I can imagine how Elisa's children must be feeling.

Elisa's husband's body language has been judged by some as being the person responsible for Elisa's disappearance. He would be under enormous pressure trying to keep it together for the sake of the children.

I really hope he isn't the one responsible for Elisa's disappearance or death...but if he is...I can understand that he could have come to the end of his tether that has driven him to take drastic actions...as my Father couldn't live with my Mum's mental illness any longer...and he finally took his own life. A person can only take so much.

I thought I would share my personal journey because people don't know what it's like until they have been through similar situations.

I am feeling very concerned for the children and remembering them in my prayers.

 

[bearbear]

wonder if anybody has taken her labrador for a walk along her well known running or walking track or beach and asked it to find "mummy" my dogs would know what that meant

 

[Constableno1]

Yep. I find it interesting how the husband is now being referred to as a 'non practising solicitor' to a stay at home Mum.

It's almost like Elisa was being heralded too much for being intelligent more so than the husband.

Husband: But what about me, I've been a solicitor.....

I think you read that incorrectly. I think Eliza is a non practicing lawyer and now stay at home mum.