Found Deceased Australia - Melissa Caddick, 49, Sydney, NSW, 12 Nov 2020 #6

[TootsieFootsie]

I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to cause any worry here

I had been going to post something, then thought better of it

It was nothing to do with anyone's post, more just me thinking through something and deciding against it.

 

[Estelle]

Body language OwlHeart, did you notice the pause AK did when a reporter asked about the party?

I have never thought that there would have been a party after the raid that night. I assumed that the loud music would have been used to cover up loud voices.

 

[Estelle]

Can I just say for the record that everything I say is my own opinion unless stated to be fact with references or links provided.

All scenarios I suggest are hypothetical.

Thankyou.

You could put that at the bottom of everything you write to cover yourself as I do. You have to set that up in your profile.

 

[Estelle]

I'm so sorry. I didn't mean to cause any worry here

I had been going to post something, then thought better of it

It was nothing to do with anyone's post, more just me thinking through something and deciding against it.

I think some of us assumed you were going to report us!

 

[TootsieFootsie]

I'm not sure now if I said this before but I want to give my condolences to Melissa's family and friends.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

 

[Orgona]

The edit options no longer exist

I did an edit on my own post almost immediately, but maybe you haven’t seen it anymore.

If you can’t t edit anymore, you can report your own post and ask the mods to delete it. But IMO the first thing (edit) is preferable -to not to make extra work for the mods- whenever is stil possible.

 

[SouthAussie]

It looks as if most of you are now agreeing with at least some of the scenario I posted about a week ago.
That is that AK could have been the one who drove MC to the Bournda Beach area to hide away where MC had attended a school camp.
Most of us have now agreed that he would not have driven her there in his Audi as that would have stood out.
My theory was that he hired a car for the purpose. But could he have used her Mercedes instead?
They could have left after OC went to school but could he have been back home before OC arrived home from school?

This journey Dover Heights to Bournda Beach would have taken 5 hr 55 min (451.9 km) via Princes Hwy/A1
So he would have needed at least 12 hours just for the driving.
If they left at 5.30am when OC heard the door bang, AK would not have been back home until 5.30pm if he just drove her there, turned around and drove back again straight away.
You would not expect OC to lie on AK's or his mother's behalf. So if AK or MC did not bang the door, who did?
I guess you could argue that OC is old enough to let himself into the house after school.
Have the police asked OC if AK was home when he arrived home from school?

Could AK and MC have left soon after the raid and AK arrived home at 5.30am?
Assuming they left as early as 8.30pm, and the return journey took 12 hours, AK could not have arrived home until 8.30am so who banged the door at 5.30am?

So perhaps a possible scenario is that when AK got up that morning and MC was not around, AK might have asked OC where his mother was. OC tells him that he heard the door bang at 5.30am so they both assumed she had gone for a walk. But when she did not return before OC went to school, AK might have told OC that he would drive around to "all her favourite spots" and if he was not home when he arrived home from school, not to worry as he could still be out looking for her. In this case, MC might have been up and banged the door so that OC would hear it and think she had gone for a walk. She then hid from OC and did not emerge until after he went to school. Then AK and MC left. Now I would imagine that OC could have been worried about his mother all day and at least could have phoned his father or his grandparents to ask them had they heard from MC as AK was not at home when he arrived home from school? But, as AK could have warned him that he might not be home, perhaps he did not worry.

The rental car and isolated accommodation (for 3 months? with keys in a lockbox) could have been booked the night after the raid and food and shakes, etc taken.

What do you think?

I suspect the 5:30am 'closing' of the door was a diversionary thing. Expressly so Melissa's son could hear it.
If someone was trying to creep in or out of the house, they would have been very careful to exclude any door noise. imo

And if anyone was going to be gone for hours and not see the son in the morning, I would expect that they would leave him a note .. at the very least.

 

[they'll get you]

I've read it before I just wasn't thinking, I'm sorry for being a liability to this group.

You’re no liability Owl in fact I like your enthusiasm.

 

[Mr Murphy]

OC and AK were both very calm according to police... they are key to further info...

 

[TootsieFootsie]

Haha you're kidding

I would never report anyone. I wouldn't like getting anyone in trouble or making them feel bad.

I did report a spammer a few weeks ago. That was my first and only press of the report button. It was the middle of the night and the whole of the new posts page was filled up with foreign language posts and I was worried that the links might have been dodgy to click on.

I think some of us assumed you were going to report us!

 

[they'll get you]

I have never thought that there would have been a party after the raid that night. I assumed that the loud music would have been used to cover up loud voices.

Many get paranoid and think the cops leave bugs everywhere. The music might’ve been on to cover some planning.

 

[they'll get you]

I suspect the 5:30am 'closing' of the door was a diversionary thing. Expressly so Melissa's son could hear it.
If someone was trying to creep in or out of the house, they would have been very careful to exclude any door noise. imo

And if anyone was going to be gone for hours and not see the son in the morning, I would expect that they would leave him a note .. at the very least.

The door closing/slamming could mean anger coming in or going.
Were they both paranoid about the bugs and went outside to speak? You wouldn’t need your phone just outside your home.
“Karen went to clear her head”. We had an argument.
“Alison went for a run” we had an argument.
“Melissa went for a run” you’re not in trouble....

 

[they'll get you]

OC and AK were both very calm according to police... they are key to further info...

From dawn to dusk ASIC went through the place like a packet of salts.
Stuff was taken and funds were frozen.
How can they remain calm?
I really hope the child was protected.

They went to bed as normal.

Melissa was so calm she supposedly jumped off a cliff.
I’m yelling BS.


“The f---wit hasn’t told us anything,”
(No love lost there)

“.... he hadn’t contacted her family,”

You’d think Melissa needed her mum and dad but he didn’t call to see if she was there.

 

[they'll get you]

OH Thanks. I have never heard about the 4x4. Perhaps that car was used.

By memory the plate was 4X PAWS or similar.

 

[srper2]

There’s 3 vehicles that I’ve seen.
Merc
Audi
4x4 - why would they need a rock climber and where did they use it?

I would expect MC needed that to drive the son to school. Often it is not possible to drop a child off at a private school unless it is in a new 4wd.

 

[Mr Murphy]

From dawn to dusk ASIC went through the place like a packet of salts.
Stuff was taken and funds were frozen.
How can they remain calm?
I really hope the child was protected.

They went to bed as normal.

Melissa was so calm she supposedly jumped off a cliff.
I’m yelling BS.


“The f---wit hasn’t told us anything,”
(No love lost there)

“.... he hadn’t contacted her family,”

You’d think Melissa needed her mum and dad but he didn’t call to see if she was there.

Neither of them contacted family...

 

[srper2]

Interesting that after the raid, when MC's son heard the door click and MC was thought to have left early but never came home, neither her husband or her son were concerned enough to contact extended family to see if she was there. Were they used to her disappearing when she was not happy? Was the loud music the night after the raid meant to be noticeable, to make neighbours think they were at at home when they were not? Really does seem that MC was possibly using that time to quickly shuffle money from the accounts that were not yet found and to disappear. Will be interesting to see where the missing art works show up, if they were genuine and not fakes like the rest of the show there. MOO!!

 

[srper2]

I have also wondered why MC allegedly had a diploma and other qualifications, but had not been able to obtain her own Financial Services license. There is not much solid info. on what she really did in the time after she was caught forging cheques and lost her job. A lot of fluff about her wonderful businesses, but if she really did the study and had the quals and experience, why did she not just have her own legit licensing? It seems to me that she probably faked her quals and knew that she would not get a license with fake quals and no true relevant recent experience that could be confirmed apart from her own fake business??? She probably couldn't apply for an independent FS license after working at the job she was fired from as it is likely if she used that as a reference, the truth about her dishonesty would have come out. It is almost as though she waited beyond the statue of limitations, then just faked it from then on....
How to Spot a Narcissistic Sociopath

 

[srper2]

The door closing/slamming could mean anger coming in or going.
Were they both paranoid about the bugs and went outside to speak? You wouldn’t need your phone just outside your home.
“Karen went to clear her head”. We had an argument.
“Alison went for a run” we had an argument.
“Melissa went for a run” you’re not in trouble....

Argh, made my hair stand on end thinking about the murdered women whose husbands claimed "went for a run", "went to clear her head"...then nobody knowing what happened to MC apart from she "must have gone for her usual 5.30am run/walk"...but never seen alive again.....and DID she actually go for runs/walks every morning? (I honestly imagine her as one who would want an expensive personal trainer and be seen exercising etc. at an expensive gym, not just walking on her own each morning with no audience!). (A PT to complement her personal chef!). Did MC take out the life insurance insurance policy or did someone else? MOO!

 

[srper2]

...As for the relationship and marriage to AK? Was that something that happened very quickly after MC's first marriage ended, or did MC chasing AK after meeting him on the cruise end her first marriage? What is the probability of meeting a hairdresser on a cruise, falling in love and he also lives in the same city as you do? It certainly seems that AK and MC's marriage was based on materialistic interests. AK was younger than MC but he appeared unconcerned or did not realise that he owned nothing, had no savings and depended completely on MC. He appears to have not cared that he may never have children and had lost contact with his family. MC's brother referred to AK as "the fu#@wit", but AK still preferred to go and stay with MC's parents rather than go back to his own family when the sh#t hit the fan. It really does seem that he believes the money will roll again once the police realise that they were mistaken about MC being a con artist!!!!
It is so sad that MC's son has very likely lost his mother, AK his wife and MC's family have lost a daughter and sister, all over money and extreme greed. I do wonder if someone had really taken their heads out of the clouds and challenged MC about the whole scheme being too good to be true before it reached the point that it did, she may have been able to reel it back in and repay as much as possible and nobody would have disappeared or died.