Not that I am excusing anything Melissa did, but it is worth repeating, she was not in the class of huge embezzlers. She certainly was a rip off artiste, but she confined herself, ( I see it as part of her shyness!) to her close friends and family, and her close friends families. Not the general public unless they were specifically targeted , and then they were known to her in a roundabout way . ( the mother of her son's school friend, for example ) ..
Her sudden and unheralded suicide , in that she left no note, made no previous attempts at it as far as is known, she bought no equipment for the job, and she could not have left more of a mess, not one attempt to at least assure her parents of their home, and she could have diverted monies she had access to , paying off at least, their mortgage, she did none of these things.
Not a note to her son. This is one part of this whole crime I find incomprehensible. If she knew and with great determination , chose a method of death that had to increase unbearable fear ( leaping off a cliff into the unknown sea bed, in a shark area, rocks, crabs , groupers, ) .. she was a lot braver in one area of her life that she did not demonstrate in any other area of her life.
But I digress. What I meant was, she was small bananas in the overall scheme of past and present Sydney scammers. She was at it long time, very very careful as to whom she admitted into the inner circle of 'Friends to Help.'. .. she carefully stymied those who had suspicions by immed. refunding their money with interest. But she was , albeit an outrageous scammer, she was overall, a small scammer, of specific targets, peoples superannuation. Died for a few million dollars. Awful.
She must have realised at some stage , that she could not be ostentatious and profligate with her scooped up dollars. Jewelry was one way of eating the money up, yet keeping a low profile. The flashy cars, the waterside home, all these things can just about fly under the radar in Sydney, she didn't go overboard, like try and get on board the Opera House Committee or the RSY Squadron... Cranbrook school was about as far up the social climbers ladder as she was willing to go. She was attempting to enter the Horse Racing world, but that is full of old hands at scamming, really. She reared back from it, for that very reason, I suspect.
In some ways she was interesting, and in others she was predictable and dreary, what a combo. ...