I doubt that any lawyer would reccommend doing that. Perhaps a lawyer on here could clarify? When you put yourself in his shoes, potentially jeopardising your defense against a charge of murder takes priority over reaching out to the family of someone you barely knew and had an argument with. It is unlikely Tostee knew Warriena well enough to have deep feelings for her, but he did make some attempt to reach out in his recent letter.
I would have thought someone would care less about jeopardising their defence and be more concerned with reaching out to the family. If Tostee was so concerned about his defence, why write a statement on a public bodybuilding forum that could be used as further evidence against him? Not having deep feelings for someone does not negate his behaviour that night.
Anyone with a semblance of decency would have called an ambulance if she had fallen off, showed some emotion, most likely screamed themselves as she fell and gone straight outside to wait for help to arrive. How did he know she would definitely not have survived?
Who calls their lawyer 38 seconds after someone falls and shows no sign of emotion on a recording they made themselves for the entire couple of hours post fall?
Who a mere minute after someone falls off their balcony goes and (quite clearly on recording) starts moving stuff around (sort of sounds like hiding evidence), opens a bottle and shakes out what sounds like pills and proceeds to take off?
Who hides behind a pillar and watches the terrible scene? A sociopath does because they like to continue to revel in their crimes and don't want to get caught.
Tostee posted himself that he turned around and saw her (somehow hover magically) before she went over. Pretty incredible timing right there...but that aside...surely if you saw someone fall, regardless of whether you liked her all that much, if you had nothing to do with it...you would react. There was NO REACTION other than heavy breathing (as if he had exerted himself excessively during the screams and also as the screaming dramatically dropped off - as if he had held a weight for some time - such as a body over a balcony ledge) and a call to a lawyer. It makes no sense, just no sense at all.