AZ AZ - Adrienne Salinas, 19, Tempe , 15 June 2013 - #3

[SandSage]

Really good question Kym! To be honest I don't think I would have still gone over there if I was thinking rationally. But then, I don't think she was really thinking rationally. I think she was too heartbroken and disillusioned and yes, probably jealous, as well as intoxicated or high or both.

I think it's possible she could have wanted to punish him, yes. I really do. She could have wanted him to think she was dead.

But...then there's her dad and her family and all that....

hmmmm......

still.....

more hummmm.....

Passion.

 

[MissDemeanor]

Passion.

Obsession.

 

[MissDemeanor]

I might, if I had called repeatedly KNOWING he was home and suspected he was with someone else so he was ignoring my calls. Then again, I'd have broken it off long ago if it was that dysfunctional (says my 46 year old self and not my 19 year old self who totally would have done the above. LOL)

I would have busted through his door if I had thought he was in there with another girl.

:O

 

[SandSage]

Obsession.

Bingo.

 

[SandSage]

I would have busted through his door if I had thought he was in there with another girl.

:O

Yep. I'd have probably been arrested for disturbance (at 19). This whole thing has made me think about my relationships at that age. What. was. I. THINKING?

 

[MissDemeanor]

I know what it is like to feel passion and obsession and jealousy and rejection. The combination of all those emotions can be very explosive.

Mix it with alcohol and you have a Molotov Cocktail!

 

[SandSage]

I know what it is like to feel passion and obsession and jealousy and rejection. The combination of all those emotions can be very explosive.

Mix it with alcohol and you have a Molotov Cocktail!

Yes. Add emotional immaturity and lack of self esteem and well... we all remember Chernobyl.

BUT... we are no closer to finding her. :'(

 

[cluciano63]

All of the above is why I think he may have been ignoring her texts, figuring he would deal with her the next day, when she calmed down/sobered up.

 

[MissDemeanor]

You know what I'm thinking. I'm thinking her dad just didn't know how to deal with her emotional roller coaster rides. I'm sure he really loved her with all his heart. And same with her mom. But I have a feeling she was far too sensitive and emotional for them.

This is a national crisis actually. Parents just do not know how to cope with young people's emotions.

And because of this....many seriously do just run away.

Do they leave their things behind? Only if they don't want to be found.

 

[MissDemeanor]

She was out of control! I think the b/f knew her well enough to know that. 11 calls to him at 4 am and then at 4:43 a text saying she's coming over and he doesn't check on her.

 

[SandSage]

You know what I'm thinking. I'm thinking her dad just didn't know how to deal with her emotional roller coaster rides. I'm sure he really loved her with all his heart. And same with her mom. But I have a feeling she was far too sensitive and emotional for them.

This is a national crisis actually. Parents just do not know how to cope with young people's emotions.

And because of this....many seriously do just run away.

Do they leave their things behind? Only if they don't want to be found.

There is a genuine personality type: Highly Sensitive Personality, and during the early years, these personality types requires extra comfort, patience and understanding. Routine, safety, well being are crucial and without these, they are left to feel they are forever on shaky ground. They never feel tethered or grounded and even the people who love them unconditionally are suspected of otherwise (can often morph into a sort of borderline personality disorder). Sometimes it is easier to just start over in a world of strangers than to continually feel hurt by those around them (and all feelings are valid - whether the actions of others are meant to be hurtful or not, the recipient's perception is what matters here).

 

[MissDemeanor]

There is a genuine personality type: Highly Sensitive Personality, and during the early years, these personality types requires extra comfort, patience and understanding. Routine, safety, well being are crucial and without these, they are left to feel they are forever on shaky ground. They never feel tethered or grounded and even the people who love them unconditionally are suspected of otherwise (can often morph into a sort of borderline personality disorder). Sometimes it is easier to just start over in a world of strangers than to continually feel hurt by those around them (and all feelings are valid - whether the actions of others are meant to be hurtful or not, the recipient's perception is what matters here).

That's excellent, Sand! And very sadly true. I think Adrienne fits this description. These types are normally more intelligent as well.

 

[SandSage]

That's excellent, Sand! And very sadly true. I think Adrienne fits this description. These types are normally more intelligent as well.

Yes they are because they are typically also introverted (not shy, mind you). They are more introspective and find themselves in books and music and the arts. They are the healers and they are also the most easily wounded. :heartbeat:

 

[MissDemeanor]

Yes they are because they are typically also introverted (not shy, mind you). They are more introspective and find themselves in books and music and the arts. They are the healers and they are also the most easily wounded. :heartbeat:

You are so smart!!!! I love reading your responses!

 

[SandSage]

You are so smart!!!! I love reading your responses!

Mmmmm... takes one to know one?

Night all... Adrienne... please come home.

 

[MissDemeanor]

G'nite Clucy!

Cya tomorrow!

<3

 

[cluciano63]

Anyway, accusing the BF is not on, as long as LE has indicated he is not a POI. He can't really be discussed as a possible suspect. JMO

 

[MissDemeanor]

Mmmmm... takes one to know one?

Night all... Adrienne... please come home.

Sweet Dreams!

 

[MissDemeanor]

Anyway, accusing the BF is not on, as long as LE has indicated he is not a POI. He can't really be discussed as a possible suspect. JMO

I don't believe he is a suspect. I think she left voluntarily.

 

[SandSage]

I don't believe he is a suspect. I think she left voluntarily.

As do I.