I honestly can't watch another video of the mother. Not because of what any normal mother would be going through at such a traumatic time, but because I think she's a complete liar, and let her own child pay the ultimate price for HER lifestyle choice filled with drugs, drug users, drug dealers, criminals and violence. She may as well have just handed Bella over and said "do what you want".
Addiction, burglary, assault (bar fights or domestic), possessing drug paraphernalia DO NOT emphatically imply child molestation and murder.
Occam's Razor applies. The simplest explanation is most likely the truth.
Bottom line:
TG was surrounded by a criminal element, and she herself could be included in that description. She clearly was comfortable enough around the people, and that included JRR. It is no different than you or I hanging with friends and having a good time, trusting them and never thinking the worst of them.
Yes, the *criminal* aspect should lead one to mistrust and doubt but after you've been exposed to and emotionally involved with people (criminals or otherwise) the basic human emotions involved with comradery, love, affection are still valid and strong .. and with many people she considered *family*.
There was no conspiracy. TG and the group had no reason to believe JRR (whom in the past had watched or babysat her children on previous occasions) would molest (assumed) and murder *Bella* (a very fun-loving child, I've seen video of her interacting and playing .. Bella seemed more outgoing than her ten year old sister).
Something apparently snapped within JRR when he was playing "hide and seek" with the girls that evening. Clearly he allowed himself to succumb to a desire that he might have been harboring for some time or perhaps only more recently .. or perhaps the first time that evening.
JRR's perfect storm led to Bella's terror:
1) Evil desire.
2) Opportunity.
3) Distorted thinking.
TG and family are *VICTIMS* of Bella's murder.
TG's (and family's) pain is real and clearly deep.
Bella's murder will forever affect her life, just as it would any loving mother.
JRR is the *PERP*, just out of drug rehab, most likely not fully detoxed nor deterred from the desire.
TG, seeing JRR as family (possibly a cousin of RF?, relationship unknown) opened her home to help.
Her good deed led to the molestation (assumed) and murder of her own (seemingly favorite) child.
Condemnation of her has gone beyond the pale. Yes, she made tragically bad choices, but is not the death of her own child enough punishment for the rest of her life? And quite possibly , CPS / DA will determine TG was negligent in providing a safe environment for her children.
I find the penetrating, hate-filled attacks presented in social media, in this forum and in comments on news web sites directed at a mother whom has just lost her child to murder by a family friend to be extremely disturbing ... a mob mentality effort to inflict mental pain beyond the hurt of losing her child. I believe it is wrong, and unproductive.