I have no issue with parents who give up their children in order to provide them with a better life. But that wasn't what happened here - DCS took Jesse and his siblings 12 years ago. Privacy laws keep us from hearing the full story but IMO that was enough time for bio mom (and/or bio dad) to do what was required to get the kids back and prevent their parental rights from being terminated. I'd be surprised if the state gives them the kids now.
Bio mom started an online fundraiser for herself on the "YC" site, claiming that her babies were "taken" from her and that she had no idea where they were. She wants money so she can get them back. This is a different fundraiser than the one Jesse's bio grandmother started that was closed last year.
Bio grandmother contacted msm in August 2016, saying Jesse and his sibs were taken from her daughter because of drugs and instability issues. Grandmother said she tried to get custody of the kids but her "credit" wasn't good enough. She's now a convicted felon so she probably won't get custody of them in the near future.
http://www.azfamily.com/story/32690...-be-grandmother-of-missing-buckeye-boy-speaks
http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/police-skeletal-remains-identified-missing-boy-54049437
The bio family claims the state failed Jesse and I won't argue. But they also failed the kids and that's why Jesse and his brother and sister wound up in state care in the first place. And adoptive mom failed the kids. Heck, she didn't even show up for the dependency hearing; instead she sold her house and moved on.
And who pays for all the "failures?" The children!

I'm finding it difficult to have sympathy for anyone except Jesse, his twin and his brother.