Clearly patience is another skill she was never taught.
I'm struck by how there seems to be a pattern emerging where the people with the rights are the people who do the harm, and the people who are the victims or are trying to help the victims are the ones that need to jump through hoops. I realize that we have become quite a litigious society, but this is just too much. I understand that everyone (including those that are guilty) "deserve" a fair shake, but the line has to be drawn somewhere. It's almost like at some point we were so busy writing laws and protections for those that are suspected/convicted of crimes, that we forgot about the the actual victims, and their rights, kwim?
I know I'm preaching to the choir here, so I'll stop ranting now.
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latest update here:
http://www.azcentral.com/community/...ale-girl-jhessye-shockley-court-document.html
This whole case makes me sick and grandma needs to shut her mouth. NOBODY was looking out for these kids. Grandma should be ashamed of herself, defending her loserdaughter who has already been incarcerated for beating the same very kids. I cannot believe this mother got her kids back after 4 years in prison for child abuse. It is now looking like mom killed the girl and has hid the body. Very sad. Extremely unlikely this little cutie pie is alive. I believe the siblings over the mother and grandmother. Sad. Even the grandma was not even looking out for her own grandkids she is too busy pulling the race card and criticizing police.
When I see a case like this, I have to go back and review other unsolved cases. I'm having great pause in the Haleigh Cummings case now. GREAT pause.
Bless little Jahessye. :heartluv:
I can't believe the evil she had to endure at the hands of someone who was supposed to be her mother. :furious:
I want G'ma arrested for failure to protect those kids and I want a public explanation from CPS as to why those children were not moved into foster care in April 2011.
And I want those things RIGHT NOW!
Salem
Your post brought to mind some thoughts I've had but haven't shared on our boards but I'll use your post to jump off because you brought up the other unsolved cases we have here (and we have literally hundreds, and those are just a fraction of the children that remain missing).
The thought is that~ we tend to view others by our own POV of the world. Meaning many of us look at a situation and want to believe that a caregiver (parent...etc.) couldn't do this or wouldn't do this. Because we ourselves would never think to do exactly that~ whether it be to strike a child to death or to treat them in cruel ways.
And even futher a great many of us (hey, I do this myself at times) will look at a parent or caregiver and say oh they couldn't have possibly done this, there is no motive or they couldn't have done it and disposed of a body---
Or (and I do this myself too) we assign labels to them to remove them from us, like evil or crazy or etc... When in fact, more than likely, if we had known them to speak to them we would be shocked that they could be responsible for these actions. I can't count how many times we seen friends and family say "He/she was such a good parent", or "they could never do anything like that" or "i'll never believe it until they say so with their own mouth".
But they do. Children are murdered and disposed of every week. Some are never found and some caregivers never brought to justice. It's sad and that's why you won't see me on a lot of children's threads. I can't even go to the kids subforum we have here. I'm just too softhearted and can't bear it. I just can't.
Sorry for the ramble but Jahessye's case is why I'm not so quick to defend a caregiver anymore. I'm not quick to accuse but I'm never surprised anymore when a caregiver is arrested or charged.
That's sad isn't it?All JMHO.
You know what is killing me about these cases? I mean other than the obvious like I have no idea why parents hate their children so much that they would torture them to death...these parents used to call LE or an ambulance once they had killed them. There was aleays that stupid "child fell off of the bed and was blue when I found him/her", but at least they called.
Now, it seems to me, since FICA parents dump them and dont say another word. They just leave their lovelies out in the cold waiting for some poor passerby to finally uncover what they did to their flesh and blood.
I dont understand how we got here.
After reading the report, I am sick to my stomach. Now I know that lil J is no longer with us. WTF is wrong with people. If you don't want your kids, then give them up!!!:furious::furious:
Really, is life in prison or the death penalty worth abusing kids!!!
If I did not believe in heaven, I don't know what else would get me through reading things like this or taking action myself against these monsters!!
It's just amazing to me, and you do seem to see it fairly often - people who can't manage to sit there respectfully in the court of law. Most everyone can manage it, even the most hardened murderers, but there are always people who for some reason won't. You know, if she were being offered $100 in some unrelated event by some kind of promoter to sit still and look pleasant for 3 hours, she could do it no problem. Hundred bucks for the person who sits still and looks the most pleasant. You know she could. Why can't she manage that when SO MUCH is at stake?
Off topic but I am thinking of that woman who lived across the street from that dying girl last year, and she put coffins and stuff in the yard and taunted the family on facebook and the whole neighborhood hates her. And here we had a PTA officer who stole 20K from the PTA and flipped off the PTA treasurer at her court trial. I mean really. Astounding.
Hunter makes court appearance in missing daughter's case
http://ktar.com/6/1472417/Hunter-makes-court-appearance-in-missing-daughters-case
During her initial court appearance, Jerice Hunter gripped her arms, nodded her head and rocked back and forth as the wait got to her.
"Is this legal," she said. "They do this to everybody?"
The judge excused herself from the bench several times.
So Johnson does not believe what her Grandchild says about what happened to Jhessye? Let me guess ... The foster family and CPS brainwashed her and it's all a lie right?The report goes on to say the child told investigators that Hunter allegedly kept Jhessye in her mother's bedroom closet.
Police said Hunter's children who have been in Child Protective Services since soon after Jhessye's disappearance told police Jhessye has bruises on her.
I think it's either an error in the report or the kids got that detail wrong. It would be hard for a 13 year old to place EXACTLY when the last time her sister was seen, if it was a couple weeks ago.
One thing that's interesting to me, but doesn't mean much, is that none of the kids noticed J was dead. They described that the closet smelled like death, and described what J looked like - a zombie. I wonder why they couldn't make the connection from that that J was dead?