Baez & Casey's relationship?

[babycat]

two points. Maybe he has not had an offer? or (not saying it's happening) but many affairs happen during work hours or lunch breaks.
sorry,

That is super insulting. You're insinuating that my fiancee would cheat on me if offered. That crosses a line.

I'm an exciting, creative, successful, artist. I'm fairly good looking. I make every day exciting. I'm quirky, but fun. I know this about myself. I know that I am a fun partner to be with. I know there is no way he would trade that for anything. There's not one day he wouldn't want to wake up to a painting sitting in the bathtub, or oil paint smeared on our hairdryer, or flowers hanging from our ceiling. We are made for each other.

Conversely, he is very good looking, successful, humble, and has great morals. He's even turned in $520.00 in cash in an unmarked envelope to the police department.

I know what kind of man he is, which is why I'm in love with him.

I'm not even a tiny bit worried. I have great self esteem, and am very secure.


However, I think your post was rude. Downright insulting.

 

[babycat]

I'm not stereotyping and just realistic. I am very happy in my marriage and I gave you some of my secrets. take it or leave it.
all I'm going to say is "good luck to you." But I know that if I had to bet, I would bet that eventually you will find out I was right. Sorry to say. but I do hope for your sake, that an affair does not happen to you. Seriously. I really do hope so. But I know that the odds are against you. Do some research on the topic and you will see what I mean.
fidelity takes work.

I'm sorry, I don't need the luck. I am well aware that relationships take work. I don't need to research anyone else's failed marriage to see that. Those people are not me. It's worked for 7 years so far, and we're as happy as the day we met.

But thanks for your concern about my fiancee's possible future affairs

 

[manatee]

Maybe Falwell isn't the best guy to quote....

"Grown men should not be having sex with prostitutes unless they are married to them." Jerry Falwell 1997

:crazy:

that's funny

 

[babycat]

What would people be saying if Casey's attorney were female instead of a male? I guess we would all be finding out she's a lesbian, right?
Has it occurred to anyone that it is possible to have a purely platonic relationship with a member of the opposite sex? Has it occurred to anyone that he might feel protective over Casey considering the emotional feeding frenzy that is going on with the media and internet?

completely agree.

 

[babycat]

I didn't say their marriage would not last. I simply said that the odds than an affair will happen to the relationship go up. Higher risk, that's all.Many people stay married after affairs. many marriages that struggle with an affair decide not to tell anyone about it and work it out. My theory is that the best way to find out how to avoid something from happening to you is by understanding how it can occur. Once you do that then you can take steps to prevent it. youonly have to experience an affair once to know you don't ever want to go through it again.

I have been cheated on by an ex, and we we were always checking up on each other, and imposing limits. It didn't help, obviously. It just made us more suspicious of each other. And guess what? I was right. Rules only work if BOTH parties hold up their end.

Which supports my theory that you need two good PEOPLE in a marriage, and not necessarily rules. Because only an honorable person would totally uphold those rules. And an honorable person would also probably not cheat.

This thread has gotten off topic and out of hand, and I don't want to contribute to it anymore.

I apologize to the other posters on this thread for getting so off topic. I recognize my part in it, and I feel bad about that, but I think it struck a nerve with me. So I'm going to stop now.

Manatee, I still feel glad that we can both voice our opinions, whatever they may be. We're lucky to be able to do that.

Cheers

 

[st. crispian]

I shared the same hmmmmmmm....... moment that Manatee expressed on a few different occasions when viewing Casey and Baez together. I DO think Casey is trying to play him, but I don't think he's dumb enough to fall for it. He may just play along with her. This is all my reaction coming from inside my own head when I've seen them together. Jose is attractive and suave (IMO). Casey has come to view him as her knight in shining armor (IMO).

Remember Amy Fisher and her attorney? Gawd, it was embarrassing!! I wonder if Casey is using the Amy Fisher model in dealing with Baez. I see Casey and Amy Fisher as very much alike. All just MOO.

 

[Bobby62]

Casey is the IT defendant girl right now! That's all. I think he see's dollars and publicity and fame.

ITA. I think he looks at her and sees a beach house and a big step to a career that ends with early retirement.

I think calling her "my girl" was by design, to somewhat humanize her in front of the 100 million people in this country that will see that clip.

I think there is no way that he would ever dip his quill in ink that is that tainted.