Three words that could've saved Kim Pham's life -- and could save you
- OpEd - LA Times
By Paul Whitefield
February 11, 2014, 1:35 p.m.
Whatever happened to following this sensible advice: Just walk away? Its so simple, so concise -- and in the case of Kim Pham, it couldve saved her life.
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What happened outside that nightclub on Jan. 18? Heres testimony Tuesday from a preliminary hearing into the case, as reported by the Los Angeles Times:
Officer Roland Andrade said one witness told him someone from Zavala and Britos group bumped into Pham, setting off an argument.
Andrade was told one of the women told Pham, Excuse me, using a sarcastic tone. That prompted Pham to start screaming obscenities at the group. The witness said Pham had to be restrained by her friends.
Zavala and Britos group walked away, but then came back twice to confront Pham, 23, who broke free from her friends and threw the first punch, Andrade said the witness told him.
Pham was kicked in the head by a woman after tumbling to the ground in the scrum, the officer said.
So there, apparently, is all it was: A stupid argument. Emotions ran high.
People got out of control. Now one person is dead and two others, if convicted, face long prison sentences, their lives to be ruined as well.
And for what? Because someone bumped into someone? Really?
Now, Im not blaming the victim.
Pham didnt deserve to die. But I am saying that, had she just walked away, or had the alleged assailants just walked away, none of this wouldve happened.
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Drivers become enraged at some slight on the freeway, leading to road rage. Where is the logic: He cut me off; he deserves to die! Seriously?
I dont know what happened in Santa Ana. I dont know why Kim Pham
apparently got so upset,
apparently threw a punch. I dont know why her two alleged assailants did what they did.
But I do know this: All concerned should have just walked away. Life is short enough; dont live it by being foolish.
Much More @ Link
http://www.latimes.com/opinion/la-ol-kim-pham-beating-death-santa-ana-20140211,0,814052.story#axzz2tmm6Ia4k
As more details of this night come to light, I believe we will learn the sad truth of this case. The defendants will not be able to hide behind the curtain of victim-blaming forever. This Op-Ed shows that Zavala and Brito went back to confront Kim, which led to the physical confrontation. We still haven't heard whether or not anyone has a video of the full physical confrontation, so I personally am not completely convinced Kim made first contact. The possibility exists that someone could have touched her first (put hands on her) before she "threw the first punch." The fact of the matter is, WE DON'T KNOW! All witnesses haven't come forward, and the only people who are making statements are the defense. They have a clear cut motive for making damaging statements against a victim who cannot speak for herself. Therefore, I take every word they say with a boulder of salt. :moo:
The author is correct in his advice. All parties could have walked away. This applies most poignantly to Zavala, Brito, and to the third party, Amelia/Emilia. The moment Kim was on the ground, at their feet, the threat was neutralized. They had a decision to make - each and every one of them. Instead, two of them made a choice to deliver a series of three fatal kicks to Kim Pham's head, rendering her unconscious, and eventually brain dead. I am awaiting reports that any of the three parties made attempts to stop each other, but so far, that has yet to be reported. I am hoping to hear there was some semblance of humanity from the perpetrators of this crime against Kim. In my eyes, the ultimate crime occurred from the moment she was on the ground - defenseless. What they did to her was indefensible. Their lawyers have an uphill battle to prove otherwise, and they know it. Unfortunately, their desperation shows in their willingness to drag Kim through the mud in an effort to save themselves. I just hope the public doesn't fall for it.
Kim, and her amazing family, deserve better than this. Their pain and loss has already been tremendous. Unfortunately, they have a long road left to travel.
May #JusticeForKim prevail.....
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