la2cabo
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Thank you for your words of wisdom and knowledge - I very much appreciate them. My son doesn't get out for a couple more years (he also joined at 19) but plans on following in his dad and grandpa's footsteps and become a firefighter.
Thank you to your husband and YOU for your sacrifices and service. It's a family affair
Thank you to your husband and YOU for your sacrifices and service. It's a family affair

Your son's service is appreciated. When war isn't raging (and I mean raging as we always have service members serving in dangerous positions somewhere), our appreciation of our military personnel isn't expressed as often or as loudly.
My husband joined when he was 19 years old. He did it after working an all night factory job while trying to put himself through his first year of college. The draft was still active back then and he had a number, but he enlisted in order to possibly have more influence over his placement. He couldn't work full-time and attend college too so he decided to try to become a pilot (which he accomplished).
Anyway, I didn't meet him until he had already served for sixteen years and spent seventeen additional years along with him as an army wife. Although, not my son, still very daunting times when he was deployed, whisked away quickly, dealt with all kinds of issues related to fellow wives and army life in general.
It's good you brought the subject up, because our soldiers (out of habit - sailors, airmen, etc.) really need the support of citizens behind them. Sometimes they may feel they don't have it. Then, for one person, I don't know . . . perspective is something to think about.
Hang in there though. Upon his return, encourage him to seek out opportunities. Specifically, suggest that he thinks about and applies for any opportunity the service offers that interests him. Other than serving his country, which no one can take away from him, he'll get something (education or skill) in return if he goes after it. Point out that he has to be proactive and put effort into finding out about existing opportunities. That's what my husband did. Today, opportunities exist but not every soldier steps up to claim them.