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I don't know if it changes your view at all, i doubt it does, but Sarah worked and Jen stayed home.
eta..and they are the same age
And Jen was the one accused of abuse in both 2008 & the 2010 abuse Sarah pled guilty to, which you seem to agree has some privilege attached to it, I believe the child who says Jen acts tough and beat her and dunked her head and Sarah pleading guilty might be evidence of Jen's control.
Not to say Sarah wasn't sort of BPD to Jen's seeming NPD. And the recent accusations are "they" are abusing Hannah and withholding food. So, I'm conflicted about Sarah and appreciate other's thoughts to chew on.
I think they have to be working as a team if they are withholding food. Otherwise the 2nd parent would sneak food to the hungry child, if they did not want to go along with the punishment. And that didn't seem to be happening.