All those reasons you state are exactly the reason he should have immediately suspected foul play and reported the family missing. Would the family go on a 10 day vacay without the stroller, without Summer’s prescription glasses and with the dogs in the yard? I think not.
I really dont find that strange though Mica when it comes to family members. Immediately they want to convince themselves there is a logical reason their loved ones are missing.
From all the missing persons cases I've watched over the years on true crime channels it seems denial is an emotional coping mechanism for family, and friends who had love ones missing.
Fgs poor Sharon Rocha appeared everyday in the media for 3 weeks taking up for Scott Peterson, the man who had murdered her daughter, and grandson. Why? Because it was too painful to accept, and far less painful to be in protective denial instead.
And so may other families with missing love ones wanted desperately to believe they willingly left, and when they return it will all be okay.
In several of those cases they waited even longer than Joey's family did. holding out hope they would return, and everything would end well.
I don't blame any of these families who delayed reporting. I understand how they so wanted to believe their love ones would safely return, and explain to them then why they left. In those cases everything was left behind as well.
Imo, It's only human nature to cling to the best hopeful outcome at first. It gives the family hope they will return alive, and well.
Of course as more time passes it gets harder, and harder for them to convince themselves.
Imo the one who helped put this in their mind was the murderer himself.
Did CM call the family immediately the very first day when no one could make contact?
Who called the family first about being unable to contact Joey? Was it his best friend, CM? When did CM advise MM about Joey? Was it immediate or delayed?
Then CM told them he thought someone was coming by to feed, and put water out for their dogs did he not?
Imo, they were soaking up all the bits of information he was feeding them, purposefully, imo, that lead them to believe they were willing away, imo.
Even CM wasn't alarmed in the least when asked by MSM if he knew where Joey could be. Even though HE was the very one in daily contact numerous times a day, and nonchalantly told MSM he would check it out when he got around to it later at the end of the week. CM was the one at their home so much the neighbors thought he lived there. The family did not live in the area.
Its obvious CM was using a stalling delaying tactic...both with Joey's business contacts, and contacting the family, and feeding them a load of bull about the dogs.
Imoo