You know Lillibet, your comment made me think....I don't think we have discussed this and if we have please forgive me.
Could John be "hiding out" for the sole purpose to make the bankruptcy take longer and to buy time for his wife to be able to make some other arrangements for living? Could it possibly give her another 4-5 years since he cannot be found?
Just a thought!
Unfortunately, my understanding of his bankruptcy (somewhere upthread) is that because he has not come to the scheduled meetings to finalize everything, the bankruptcy reverts to the kind where his wife would lose their house. If he had followed through, I believe they could have kept the house. So disappearing really puts her at a disadvantage as I understand it. I will rummage around on the thread and look for our discussion of this.