Great discussion! My two cents: first, remember that John Beck disappeared on the morning of 2/9 just before the meeting and missed the rescheduled 3/8 meeting because he hasn't been seen since.
One critical clarification about the situation - though the meetings were indeed important they were also quite routine in nature. It was a 341(a) hearing (Meeting of Creditors) with the bankruptcy trustee to review his chapter 7 documentation, exemptions and pre- and post-bankrupcy assets & debt obligations. 341s are not court cases and are not conducted in a courtroom with a judge present; but rather, more of a validation & clarification meeting with the court-appointed trustee. These meetings rarely run longer than 30 minutes, depending on whether the creditors attend (they usually don't; don't know if the FTC would in this instance) even in proceedings following a complex civil case such as this. Most are shorter than 15 minutes in duration.
Anyway, at the end of the hearing, the trustee will either request additional documentation to be provided in a follow-up meeting, or allow the discharge of debt obligations. The creditors will then have a period of time, typically 60 days, to file an objection to the discharge or let it pass. So even though this was yet another in a long series of meetings related to the original case, as the family described it, the proceedings were nearing completion and they were probably seeing the light at the end of the tunnel.
The emotionally tough work in the process actually comes prior to the 341 hearing: working with a bankruptcy lawyer and liquidating receiver on the petition and supporting documentation/finances. It is arduous work and is the moment when one sees which assets they will be liquidated from their estate. That's when the harsh reality of the situation would have hit the family. The Chapter 7 conversion was granted in December 2015, so sometime between then and a little bit before the 341 hearing on February 9, 2016, when the documentation was submitted, would have been the hardest. But the good news following the December ruling is that certain financial accounts were very likely unfrozen (but defintely still monitored) at that time, so the family would finally have had access to unrelated income, RMDs for retirement accounts and things of that nature.
That's what is so puzzling to me about all this. The hard work in the Chapter 7 process was done, they were almost finished with it, things were getting a little bit better relative to how bad they could have been, and then John Beck disappears. And regardless of whether he ran off to start anew or chose to end it all, he left his family in a very, very tough situation now that the Chapter 7 is at risk of dismissal. It's just so bizarre, but then again I won't underestimate the things stress and depression can drive someone to do.
EDIT:
Here's some additional information about the 341(a) hearing process:
http://www.alllaw.com/articles/nolo/bankruptcy/what-expect-meeting-creditors-341-hearing.html