Still Missing CA - Maya Millete, 39, missed daughter's birthday, Chula Vista, 7 Jan 2021 *husband arrested* #5

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  • #381
1/13/22

Live Blog. Friday-- PART 1, AM

11:58 a.m.:
Judge calls for 90-minute recess for lunch.


11:52 a.m.: Tabalanza said during a family trip in September 2020 to Lakewood, he noticed during stops that Maya would be getting phone calls from Larry, who was not on the trip.

Tabalanza told the court that his sister would tell Larry where they were and what they were doing. Tabalanza found it unusual that Maya would be getting phone calls at the stops, like she was “being tracked, in a way.”

Asked by Bowles to describe his conversations with Larry in 2020, Tabalanza said his brother-in-law did not want to separate from Maya and he loved her.

11:45 a.m.: Tabalanza said Maya lived at his home in May 2020 because she wanted to separate from Larry. She lived with him for about six weeks.

During one conversation with his sister, Tabalanza said Maya told him she planned to co-parent.

According to Tabalanza, Larry did not like that Maya moved from their home to live with him.


11:40 a.m.: Tabalanza described his sister as pretty private with him when it came to her personal life.

He said Larry started reaching out to him in the early months of 2020, and in one conversation he said Larry asked for his help because he believed Maya was going to leave him. Tabalanza said Larry asked him to try to convince Maya to not leave him.

Tabalanza told the prosecutor that Larry would sometimes call him multiple times in a day. Some calls were missed because Tabalanza said he was at work.

11:32 a.m.: Tabalanza said he and his siblings are fairly close, spent holidays and birthdays together, and took trips together.

Tabalanza told the court he moved into Larry and Maya’s Chula Vista home in 2015 and lived there for a few months.

He described his relationship with Larry as good, talked to him mostly about firearms and, most recently, cryptocurrency.


11:23 a.m.: Paredes excused, next witness to the stand will be Jay-R Tabalanza, Maya Millete's youngest brother.


11:11 a.m.: Martinez opened her cross-examination by asking Paredes when he examined the weapon, and he responded it was examined on April 9, 2021, and he was with detectives from the Chula Vista Police Department.

Paredes noted that he did not inspect the firearm to see if it was used. He did say that a function test was performed on the firearm, but it was not test fired.


11:05 a.m.: Paredes said the firearm obtained from Larry Millete’s home had specific characteristics that he identified, leading him to determine that the firearm was a semiautomatic rifle and an illegal weapon under the state’s penal code.

“The owner of this firearm failed to comply with California law …," Paredes said.


10:57 a.m.: After 15-minute break, California Department of Justice Special Agent Francisco Paredes has been called to the witness stand. Paredes, with the department's Bureaur of Firearms, specializes in firearms laws and identifying illegal firearms.

Paredes told the court that he was asked to examine a specific firearm obtained from Larry Millete’s home.


10:35 a.m.: After Martinez said she had no further questions for Drouaillet, prosecutor Christy Bowles asked Drouaillet if she knew if Larry helped post fliers or assist in the searches for Maya, and Drouaillet said not that she was aware of.


10:25 a.m.: Asked if she noticed a change in Maya’s lifestyle in 2020, Drouaillet said she noticed her sister was shopping more. She also confirmed she saw her sister had gotten tattoos.


10:21 a.m.: Martinez asked, “Did you ask Mr. Millete if he was responsible for your sister’s disappearance?

Drouaillet said, “I don’t remember.”


10:17 a.m.: Drouaillet said it was not true when asked if her husband went on TV and alleged that Larry was responsible for Maya’s disappearance.


10:10 a.m.: Martinez asked Drouaillet, “Did you know your sister went to Mexico on Jan. 4, 2021?”

Drouaillet responded, “No.”

Martinez then asked Drouaillet that when she was at the Millete residence on Jan. 9, 2021, if she recalled seeing any guns in the house. She answered no.


10:03 a.m.: Martinez asked if family members showed up to Larry and Maya’s home on Jan. 11, 2021, to celebrate Lara Millete’s birthday.

Drouaillet confirmed there was a gathering, but noted it was an “indication that [Maya] is not coming back. She doesn’t do that; it’s her daughter’s birthday. We tried to celebrate her birthday the best way we can as we always do.”


9:55 a.m.: Martinez asked Drouaillet if she recalled telling a Chula Vista Police officer on Jan 10, 2021, that she was unsure if Maya carried U.S. currency. Drouaillet said no.


9:41 a.m.: Martinez asked about a conversation during a trip to Glamis between Drouaillet, Maya, and a sister-in-law, asking Drouaillet if her sister said, “If something happens to me, it’s Larry.” Drouaillet confirmed that’s what her sister said.


Drouaillet said she recalled telling her sister to “be careful.”

Martinez asked if Drouaillet relayed what her sister said about Larry to him, but Drouaillet said she did not see a reason to do that.


9:33 a.m.: Regarding the incident during the family snowboarding trip, Martinez noted that it was determined the parking lot attendant was at fault, and not Larry Millete, despite Larry striking him with the vehicle. Drouaillet said she was aware that Larry was not at fault.


9:27 a.m.: Martinez asked Drouaillet if she spoke to a member of the Chula Vista Police Department on Jan. 10, 2021, and asked if she told the officer she was suspicious of Larry.

Drouaillet said she told the officer that because her sister and Larry had an argument the previous Thursday.

Martinez asked Drouaillet if she mentioned to the officer that her sister was having an affair six months prior, but Drouaillet said she did not tell that to the officer and she did not believe her sister was having an affair.


9:20 a.m.: Drouaillet said she arrived at Larry and Maya’s home on Jan. 9, 2021, and asked him where her sister was. Larry said Maya was probably at the park or went hiking or may have been in Temecula with friends.

Martinez asked Drouaillet if Maya had canceled the planned trip to Big Bear on Jan. 8, but Drouaillet said that did not happen.


9:12 a.m.: Martinez asks Drouaillet about her and Maya’s alcohol consumption. Drouaillet said she never influenced her sister or others to drink.

Martinez asked Drouaillet about her sister’s drinking, including trips to Temecula wineries, but Drouaillet only recalled one specific time Maya went to Temecula to visit a winery with friends.


Drouaillet noted that she hardly saw her sister drunk.


9:05 a.m.: Drouaillet is asked by defense attorney Bonita Martinez about a trip in 2020 to Parker Dam that family members took without Larry Millete present, but as she begins to answer, the judge requests a sidebar.


8:50 a.m.: Larry Millete's defense attorney is set to continue questioning Maya Millete's sister, Maricris Drouaillet. Hearing is slated to resume at 9 a.m.


 
  • #382
May 2020 to June 2020 Maya went to live with her brother and his family.

11:45 a.m.: Tabalanza said Maya lived at his San Diego home in May 2020 because she wanted to separate from Larry. She lived with him for about six weeks.
 
  • #383
1/13/23

Live Blog. Friday-- PART 2, PM

4:35 p.m.: The defense concluded its questioning of Tabalanza, and the judge dismissed the witness. Court will resume 9 a.m. Tuesday, Jan. 17.

4:25 p.m.:
Martinez asked Tabalanza why he didn't tell Larry why he drove a different way home to try to see a light from the master bedroom on Jan. 8, 2021. He testified there wasn't a reason, since he decided to do that after he had left.

He testified that he drove slowly, taking a route to see the back of the house, and was able to see from the road that the light still wasn't on.

The defense asked more questions about Jan. 9, 2021, which was the day the family determined Maya had gone missing. They specifically asked Tabalanza about the timing of when he was there versus when other family members were at the house that day.

4:15 p.m.: The defense asked Tabalanza several questions about the time Maya was staying with him during May 2020, including her behavior. At one point, the judge said he had heard more than enough about Maya living with him, since it was discussed at length during direct examination.

Tabalanza testified that he was not concerned about any danger to his sister when she returned back to her house with Larry in June 2020.

"Did you follow through with your sister as to how the relationship was progressing?" Martinez asked.

"Not really," Tabalanza replied.

Tabalanza also testified it's fair to say he had a good relationship with Larry.

The defense then asked Tabalanza about his earlier testimony, when he said Larry told him "he wants to get the other guy." Tabalanza testified that Larry said that after Maya admitted to him about the alleged affair.

Tabalanza said he understood Larry's statement to mean he was going to inflict some sort of violence against the man Maya had an affair with.

Tabalanza said he visited his sister shortly after she moved back in with Larry in June 2020. He testified that he did not see signs and symptoms of domestic violence against Maya during that visit.

Martinez went on to ask Tabalanza about his Jan. 8, 2021, visit to the Millete house.

3:50 p.m.: Tabalanza described some moments from a 2020 Thanksgiving trip to Glamis. He testified that Larry and Maya did not talk to each other for the entirety of the two days they were there.

The defense asked about Larry's phone calls from Jan. 2020. Tabalanza testified he does not remember what exactly he told Larry, but he offered advice to help keep the relationship together. He also said he tried to convince Maya to stay with Larry, but he again did not recall the specifics.

3:35 p.m.: The defense asked Tabalanza about Maya moving in with him during 2020 and why she wanted to separate from Larry. He testified that Maya laid out the reasons via texts, which were shown in court exhibits.

"She didn't want anything to do with him anymore," Tabalanza testified.

3:25 p.m.: The defense begins cross-examining Jay-R Tabalanza, Maya Millete's younger brother.

Defense attorney Bonita Martinez opened up by asking Tabalanza about a previous trip he went on with Larry and Maya. She asked what the couple called each other, and he replied that they used the term "mahal," which means love in Tagalog — their local dialect in the Philippines.

Tabalanza said he heard Larry call Maya "mahal," but did not remember his sister using that term for Larry.

Martinez asked if Tabalanza ever saw Larry hit or punch Maya during the 20 years he's know him. Tabalanza replied no, and he also said no when the defense asked if he ever saw Larry acting manipulative over Maya.

3:20 p.m.: Court returns from break, and the prosecution wraps up its questioning of Tabalanza.

Tabalanza returned to the house on Jan. 9, 2021, and he noticed the refrigerators were pulled several feet away from the wall. He said it appeared someone was in the middle of cleaning.

The prosecution ended its questioning by asking Tabalanza if he had seen or had any communication at all with his sister Maya since Jan. 7, 2021. "No," he replied.

3 p.m.: Court takes a 15-minute recess.

Tabalanza said when he came back downstairs, he and Larry had a conversation about cryptocurrency. At one point, Larry changed subjects, and started explaining how certain actions could be perceived as domestic violence.

During the explanation, Larry slapped the wall inches next to Tablanza's head, Tablanza said on the stand. Larry was saying that if a person does something like that to someone else, it can be considered domestic abuse or even verbal abuse, according to Tablanza's testimony.

Tablanza described that interaction as "weird" and he simply replied "Really?" to Larry.

He went on to say Larry also mentioned mental abuse, and how shouting and yelling could be considered domestic violence as well.

The prosecution asked Tabalanza about Larry's demeanor during the search, but he said he wasn't able to gauge it.

2:40 p.m.: Tabalanza describes his time at the home looking for Maya on Jan. 8, 2021, including calling out her name and going through the different rooms. Tabalanza testified that Larry was at the house at the time, and he had tried calling him multiple times but Larry told him his phone was dead all day.

Tabalanza asked Larry about the Big Bear trip and whether they were still going, and he testified that Larry said he thought he was disinvited from the trip.

Tabalanza said he asked him why and what happened. He testified that Larry told him he and Maya had a big fight the night before. In that fight, Larry threatened to call the wife of the man Maya was having an affair with, according to Tabalanza's testimony.

Tabalanza also said as he looked for Maya in the home, the master bedroom door was locked, and the light was off. Larry stayed downstairs as Tabalanza knocked on the door.

He testified that he did not ask Larry if there was a way to open the door, since he didn't want to be intrusive.

"I just felt it wasn't my place... I wanted to be respectful," Tabalanza said on the stand.

2:14 p.m.: Tabalanza said he received a call from his brother JP on Jan. 8, and he went to Larry and Maya’s home because he said he and other family members were worried because nobody had heard from her that day.

2:09 p.m.: After a family trip to Glamis on Jan. 1, 2021, Tabalanza said he did not communicate with his sister. He said he had not seen or heard from Maya since the Glamis trip.

1:52 p.m.: Tabalanza told the prosecutor the series of text messages from his sister was unusual because she does not typically share details on her personal life and marriage.

As the series of messages continued, Maya sent a message that said, “He never lets me be by myself. He checks all my emails, messages, messengers, FB posts, even checks my Venmo app. And then what? He'll just tighten the reins more.”

In response, Tabalanza replied in a text, “I told him many times to stop that.”

1:40 p.m.: Tabalanza said he received a series of text messages from his sister on Aug. 12, 2020, venting about her relationship with Larry, and the series included a message that read, “I’m so tired of his mental and emotional abuse.”

1:32 p.m.: Tabalanza said in conversations with Larry MIllete that he was concerned that Maya would leave him, even after she moved back home after six weeks at Tabalanza’s home.

Tabalanza also said during a trip to Lake Havasu in July 2020, Larry approached him and told him that Maya admitted that she had an affair.

During the conversation, Tabalanza said Larry told him he wanted to “get the guy.”

1:30 p.m.: Jay-R Tabalanza is back on the witness stand with prosecutor Christy Bowles continuing her round of questions.

 
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  • #385
Maya wanting to wait and celebrate her daughter's birthday after proceeding with the divorce tells me that she knew that her decision would make her lose access to her children for a while. It's just so freaking sad that she didn't even get to do it. Her poor kids have been so brainwashed, manipulated and quite frankly further victimized. Let's not forget that Maya's daughter was at the first couple of vigils, they didn't always think that their mother simply ran off.
 
  • #386
Why do you think the two refrigerators were pulled out? Also, my understanding is there was a deep freezer that went missing. Has that been mentioned?
 
  • #387
Was it confirmed she was having an affair? The defense lawyer asked a lot of questions about an affair, even mentioned there was an investigation into the affair? Thanks!
 
  • #388
For anyone watching this.... oh my!
Why do you think the two refrigerators were pulled out? Also, my understanding is there was a deep freezer that went missing. Has that been mentioned?

I have no idea but I'm curious to know. I don't believe the deep freeze has been mentioned.
 
  • #389
Tuesday, January 17th:
*Preliminary Hearing continues (Day 4) (@ 9am PT) - CA - *May “Maya” Millete (39) (last seen @ home on Jan. 7, 2021, near San Miguel Ranch area, Chula Vista & reported missing Jan. 9, 2021 by her sister; not found). *Larry Ibarreta Millete (40/now 41) charged (10/18/21), arrested (10/19/21) & arraigned (10/21/21) with murder. Plead not guilty. Held without bond. Denied bail (11/4/21). Found mentally competent to stand trial (9/26/22).
*Larry Millete (39/now 41) regarding gun violence restraining order on possession of guns (1/7/21) <<temporary GVRO in place against Millete was dissolved 12/1/21. Plead not guilty.
Guardianship Case: Family Court Case Trial in June, 2023 (no specific date).

Case & court info from 1/7/21 thru 1/12/23 reference post #378 here:
https://www.websleuths.com/forums/t...-7-jan-2021-husband-arrested-5.600342/page-19

1/12/23 Update: Day 2 Additional info - see post #379 here:
https://www.websleuths.com/forums/t...-7-jan-2021-husband-arrested-5.600342/page-19

1/13/23 Update Day 3: State witnesses: Maricris Drouaillet, Maya's sister continued on stand. Calif. Dept. of Justice Special Agent Francisco Paredes with the Dept.'s Bureau of Firearms, specializes in firearms laws & identifying illegal firearms. Jay-R Tabalanza, Maya's youngest brother.
for more info see post #382 & 384 here:
https://www.10news.com/news/maya-millete/live-blog-preliminary-hearing-for-larry-millete
Preliminary hearing continues on Tuesday, 1/17/23 @ 9am.
 
  • #390
Her poor dad is testifying.
 
  • #391

Jan 17, 2023

LIVE BLOG -- PRELIMINARY HEARING

10:45 a.m.: Prosecutor asks Tabalanza if he had a conversation with Larry about one of Maya's friends or co-workers. He said Larry only told him that Maya had friends from work that she went out with.

Tabalanza said he has seen Larry holding a gun, specifically talking about a time during a family gathering in Moreno Valley in 2020 where Larry came to him and said, "Papa, I will kill [him/her]. I will kill [him/her]," and at the same time he lifted his shirt and there was a gun in his waistband.

Larry did not say who he was talking about, Tabalanza told the prosecutor.

Tabalanza said the incident happened 2-3 months before Maya disappeared, from what he remembered. He said it was just him and Larry in this interaction. There was no conversation that led up to him making those statements and showing the gun, according to Tabalanza.

"I don't understand why he said that to me," Tabalanza said through his interpreter.

Larry never mentioned to him that he suspected Maya was having an affair with a co-worker, Tabalanza said.


10:45 a.m.: Session resumes with Pablito Tabalanza, Maya Millete's father, taking questions from the prosecution.

10:27 a.m.: Judge orders a 15-minute recess.


10:18 a.m.: Tabalanza told the prosecutor that when he entered the room he noticed Maya's bed inside was made and clean. He found that unusual because Maya would not make the bed whenever she leaves early, and Tabalanza said he was told that by Larry.

Tabalanza said he was at his daughter's house on Jan. 9, 2021, for maybe 6-7 hours. He said he was at the house that long to wait for his other children to arrive. While waiting, Tabalanza said Larry told him that Maya would be back.

Tabalanza described Larry's demeanor was as if nothing happened. It also did not seem like he was angry or upset, he said. Tabalanza said Larry seemed calm and was playing with the children and an aunt.

Tabalanza felt Larry' behavior that day was different.


10:08 a.m.: Maya's father said Larry did not look around the room for Maya's purse or wallet.

The prosecutor asked what Larry's reaction was when he entered the room, and Tabalanza said he seemed surprised. He said Larry went straight to the table and said that the credit card was not there. He confirmed again that Larry told him that Maya was in the upstairs room.

Tabalanza said he did not hear Larry say that he would call Maya's phone. He said Larry did not try to call Maya's phone or tried to look for her phone in the room.

Tabalanza said Larry mentioned that Maya might be with her friends, but he told Larry to go call Maya's friends. He said Larry told him he didn't have the friends' phone numbers anymore.

According to Tabalanza, Larry didn't show any reaction that his wife was missing. He didn't seem worried also, Tabalanza said.

"Why wasn't he worried when his wife was missing?" Tabalanza said he wondered at the time.

Tabalanza said he was worried because "my child was missing."

Tabalanza said Larry put his arm around him and said there was nothing to worry about and there's nothing going on. According to Tabalanza, he said Larry told him, "I will never do that because I love Maya."

9:48 a.m.: Tabalanza confirmed that he and his wife Noemi went to Larry and Maya's Chula Vista home on Jan. 9, 2021, and asked Larry where his daughter was. Larry told him Maya was upstairs in a bedroom, Tabalanza said.

Tabalanza said he tried to open the door but it was locked. He also called for Maya loudly and bumped the door with his elbow, but there was no response. He told the prosecutor that Larry was behind him at the time.

He said he asked Larry if there was a key to the door, and Larry said there was a key. He took it out of his pocket and unlocked the door and opened it, according to Tabalanza.

The prosecutor asked Tabalanza if he was surprised Larry had a key, and he said he was surprised because no one else can enter that room except Maya. He did not know his son-in-law had a key to that room.

Tabalanza entered the room and called for Maya, but nobody responded.

Larry said a credit card was not on a desk where Maya typically worked, according to Tabalanza. He said he was surprised that Larry would mention that a credit card was not there and not wonder where his wife was because he had said earlier that Maya was in the room.


Tabalanza said Larry did not look around the room for Maya.


9:41 a.m.: Tabalanza said Maya asked him on Monday, Jan. 4, 2021, to come to the house that day to babysit her youngest child, whom he knows as Tristan. He said he has "maybe 16" grandchildren.

Tabalanza told the prosecutor he was planning to go but ended up not going because he said Larry told him that his aunt would go to the house to babysit.

Tabalanza said that in a phone conversation with Maya that Larry had called him and told him he did not need to come over. The father said his daughter's tone of voice seemed "mad."

That was the last time Tabalanza said he spoke to Maya.


9:38 a.m.: Tabalanza, asked about a Christmas 2020 family celebration, said Maya seemed happy at the gathering, but Larry was outside and seemed unhappy.


9:36 a.m.: Maya's father said Larry called him a lot more over the course of 2020 than in previous years.

9:30 a.m.: Tabalanza said he knew that Larry and Maya were arguing/fighting, but he was not sure whether they wanted to separate.

Asked if Maya ever spoke to him about things in her personal life, Tabalanza said no. However, he spoke about one instance in which he told Maya that Larry had called him, but he said his daughter told him to "ignore him."


9:26 a.m.: Tabalanza told the prosecutor that he would receive numerous phone calls from Larry Millete in which he would ask him to talk to Maya for him.

Tabalanza said Larry would ask him to give advice to Maya, but he would say he didn't know what kind of advice he could offer his daughter. He said Larry wanted him to speak to his daughter about their marriage.


9:08 a.m.: Day 4 of the preliminary hearing is underway with Maya Millete's father, Pablito Tabalanza, on the witness stand. An interpreter is assisting with Mr. Tabalanza's testimony.
 
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10:45 a.m.: Prosecutor asks Tabalanza if he had a conversation with Larry about one of Maya's friends or co-workers. He said Larry only told him that Maya had friends from work that she went out with....
(Maya's Father) Tabalanza said he has seen Larry holding a gun, specifically talking about a time during a family gathering in Moreno Valley in 2020 where Larry came to him and said, "Papa, I will kill [him/her]. I will kill [him/her]," and at the same time he lifted his shirt and there was a gun in his waistband.

Larry did not say who he was talking about
, Tabalanza told the prosecutor.
BBM
 
  • #393
Was it confirmed she was having an affair? The defense lawyer asked a lot of questions about an affair, even mentioned there was an investigation into the affair? Thanks!
There has been NO confirmation that MM was having an affair.

To be clear, Larry's attorney has made the allegation numerous times to every witness (where each has each denied knowledge of an affair partner) to the point the prosecution has objected (asked and answered) and the court has sustained the objection!

IMO, the defense attorney is using the opportunity to slam the missing victim in the same manner that Larry and his parents (parent's guardianship letter) have done since Maya went missing.

In other words, the defense would like for the world to believe that Maya ran away with a lover without ever making contact since, and Larry is not responsible for disappearing his wife.

MOO
 
  • #394
The defense is sticking to LM's tonedeaf version of events.

Infidelity, drunkenness, staying out till all hours, no need for Maya's parents to babysit because LM's parents were always available.

It's sickening.

It sure paints a portrait of how oppressive life in that home must have been.

Poor Maya.

JMO
 
  • #395

Jan 17, 2023

LIVE BLOG -- PRELIMINARY HEARING

10:45 a.m.: Prosecutor asks Tabalanza if he had a conversation with Larry about one of Maya's friends or co-workers. He said Larry only told him that Maya had friends from work that she went out with.

Tabalanza said he has seen Larry holding a gun, specifically talking about a time during a family gathering in Moreno Valley in 2020 where Larry came to him and said, "Papa, I will kill [him/her]. I will kill [him/her]," and at the same time he lifted his shirt and there was a gun in his waistband.

Larry did not say who he was talking about, Tabalanza told the prosecutor.

Tabalanza said the incident happened 2-3 months before Maya disappeared, from what he remembered. He said it was just him and Larry in this interaction. There was no conversation that led up to him making those statements and showing the gun, according to Tabalanza.

"I don't understand why he said that to me," Tabalanza said through his interpreter.

Larry never mentioned to him that he suspected Maya was having an affair with a co-worker, Tabalanza said.


10:45 a.m.: Session resumes with Pablito Tabalanza, Maya Millete's father, taking questions from the prosecution.

10:27 a.m.: Judge orders a 15-minute recess.


10:18 a.m.: Tabalanza told the prosecutor that when he entered the room he noticed Maya's bed inside was made and clean. He found that unusual because Maya would not make the bed whenever she leaves early, and Tabalanza said he was told that by Larry.

Tabalanza said he was at his daughter's house on Jan. 9, 2021, for maybe 6-7 hours. He said he was at the house that long to wait for his other children to arrive. While waiting, Tabalanza said Larry told him that Maya would be back.

Tabalanza described Larry's demeanor was as if nothing happened. It also did not seem like he was angry or upset, he said. Tabalanza said Larry seemed calm and was playing with the children and an aunt.

Tabalanza felt Larry' behavior that day was different.


10:08 a.m.: Maya's father said Larry did not look around the room for Maya's purse or wallet.

The prosecutor asked what Larry's reaction was when he entered the room, and Tabalanza said he seemed surprised. He said Larry went straight to the table and said that the credit card was not there. He confirmed again that Larry told him that Maya was in the upstairs room.

Tabalanza said he did not hear Larry say that he would call Maya's phone. He said Larry did not try to call Maya's phone or tried to look for her phone in the room.

Tabalanza said Larry mentioned that Maya might be with her friends, but he told Larry to go call Maya's friends. He said Larry told him he didn't have the friends' phone numbers anymore.

According to Tabalanza, Larry didn't show any reaction that his wife was missing. He didn't seem worried also, Tabalanza said.

"Why wasn't he worried when his wife was missing?" Tabalanza said he wondered at the time.

Tabalanza said he was worried because "my child was missing."

Tabalanza said Larry put his arm around him and said there was nothing to worry about and there's nothing going on. According to Tabalanza, he said Larry told him, "I will never do that because I love Maya."

9:48 a.m.: Tabalanza confirmed that he and his wife Noemi went to Larry and Maya's Chula Vista home on Jan. 9, 2021, and asked Larry where his daughter was. Larry told him Maya was upstairs in a bedroom, Tabalanza said.

Tabalanza said he tried to open the door but it was locked. He also called for Maya loudly and bumped the door with his elbow, but there was no response. He told the prosecutor that Larry was behind him at the time.

He said he asked Larry if there was a key to the door, and Larry said there was a key. He took it out of his pocket and unlocked the door and opened it, according to Tabalanza.

The prosecutor asked Tabalanza if he was surprised Larry had a key, and he said he was surprised because no one else can enter that room except Maya. He did not know his son-in-law had a key to that room.

Tabalanza entered the room and called for Maya, but nobody responded.

Larry said a credit card was not on a desk where Maya typically worked, according to Tabalanza. He said he was surprised that Larry would mention that a credit card was not there and not wonder where his wife was because he had said earlier that Maya was in the room.


Tabalanza said Larry did not look around the room for Maya.


9:41 a.m.: Tabalanza said Maya asked him on Monday, Jan. 4, 2021, to come to the house that day to babysit her youngest child, whom he knows as Tristan. He said he has "maybe 16" grandchildren.

Tabalanza told the prosecutor he was planning to go but ended up not going because he said Larry told him that his aunt would go to the house to babysit.

Tabalanza said that in a phone conversation with Maya that Larry had called him and told him he did not need to come over. The father said his daughter's tone of voice seemed "mad."

That was the last time Tabalanza said he spoke to Maya.


9:38 a.m.: Tabalanza, asked about a Christmas 2020 family celebration, said Maya seemed happy at the gathering, but Larry was outside and seemed unhappy.


9:36 a.m.: Maya's father said Larry called him a lot more over the course of 2020 than in previous years.

9:30 a.m.: Tabalanza said he knew that Larry and Maya were arguing/fighting, but he was not sure whether they wanted to separate.

Asked if Maya ever spoke to him about things in her personal life, Tabalanza said no. However, he spoke about one instance in which he told Maya that Larry had called him, but he said his daughter told him to "ignore him."


9:26 a.m.: Tabalanza told the prosecutor that he would receive numerous phone calls from Larry Millete in which he would ask him to talk to Maya for him.

Tabalanza said Larry would ask him to give advice to Maya, but he would say he didn't know what kind of advice he could offer his daughter. He said Larry wanted him to speak to his daughter about their marriage.


9:08 a.m.: Day 4 of the preliminary hearing is underway with Maya Millete's father, Pablito Tabalanza, on the witness stand. An interpreter is assisting with Mr. Tabalanza's testimony.

Live Blog 1/17/23 continued -AM:

12 p.m.: Judge dismisses court for lunch break. Hearing to continue at 1:30 p.m., with Maya Millete's father resuming his testimony at 2 p.m.

11:52 a.m.: Tabalanza was asked if he saw Maya's Jeep parked outside of the house and he said he believed it was there.

Tabalanza again stated that Larry told him, "Don't worry, papa, she will be back. I cannot do that because I love her."

"I wonder why he said that. What does he mean?" Tabalanza told the court.

11:46 a.m.: Martinez asked if Tabalanza was aware of the planned trip to Big Bear, and he said he heard about it but he was not a part of the trip. He said he didn't want to go because it's cold there.

Going back to the Jan. 9, 2021, visit to the Millete home, Tabalanza said he searched three rooms and did not find Maya.

Tabalanza said he didn't ask Larry to look for any other missing items after Larry had mentioned the missing credit card.


11:42 a.m.: Tabalanza said he has not spoken to anyone with the Chula Vista Police Department.


11:28 a.m.: Tabalanza again said Larry did not show any reaction when he arrived at the Millete home on Jan. 9, 2021.

Tabalanza told Martinez that when he entered the house, he asked Larry right away where Maya was. Tabalanza said Larry told him that Maya was upstairs, and he just proceeded to go upstairs with Larry right behind him.

Martinez asked if he remembered if Larry was wearing an outfit without pockets on that day, Tabalanza said he didn't recall. Martinez brought up this question because she asked if Tabalanza remembered whether Larry pulled a key to the door from his pocket.

Asked what he did at the Millete home while waiting for Maya to return, Tabalanza said through his interpreter, "I just kept crying."


11:17 a.m.: Speaking about the Jan. 4, 2021, conversation he had with Larry, Tabalanza told the defense that Larry told him there was no need to come to the Millete home. A short time later, Tabalanza said he received a phone call from Maya and she asked why he wasn't coming over. He said he explained to her that Larry said his aunt would be there to watch the children.


11:10 a.m.: Martinez asked Tabalanza if he lived with Larry and Maya when he first arrived in California, and he said yes. Tabalanza said he lived with them for "maybe over a month."


11:02 a.m.: Prosecution ends questioning. Larry Millete's attorney, Bonita Martinez, will begin her cross-examination.

 
  • #396
Brian Walshe has just been charged with the Murder of his wife Ana -- missing since Jan 1. Here we go -- another no- body homicide by the husband.

 
  • #397
RE: Maya's note to Larry

The note is headed with a handwritten
date of Aug. 27, 2020.

Dear Larry,

You are right. I am not myself anymore. I've turned into this bitter, angry person who is careless with her words. But that's what our marriage has turned me into, and I hate it. I hate that you get me so angry all the time and you speak so righteous while I speak so bitterly.

You want to keep trying too, but each time I'm outside the house and not within your view, we are fighting. It is unhealthy. It's toxic. We need to change, but with the kids in mind, I want to be happy, and happy is not with you. We cannot be doing the same thing expecting the same results.

I've been gone mentally and emotionally for a very long time, which you failed to notice until I found the strength to initiate physically leaving.

I read this and I thought maybe you consider it.

"The EGO says once everything falls into place, I'll find peace. The spirit says find peace and everything will fall into place."

Let me find my peace; I cannot find it with you.

Maya
 
  • #398
Live Blog 1/17/23 continued -AM:

12 p.m.: Judge dismisses court for lunch break. Hearing to continue at 1:30 p.m., with Maya Millete's father resuming his testimony at 2 p.m.

11:52 a.m.: Tabalanza was asked if he saw Maya's Jeep parked outside of the house and he said he believed it was there.

Tabalanza again stated that Larry told him, "Don't worry, papa, she will be back. I cannot do that because I love her."

"I wonder why he said that. What does he mean?" Tabalanza told the court.

11:46 a.m.: Martinez asked if Tabalanza was aware of the planned trip to Big Bear, and he said he heard about it but he was not a part of the trip. He said he didn't want to go because it's cold there.

Going back to the Jan. 9, 2021, visit to the Millete home, Tabalanza said he searched three rooms and did not find Maya.

Tabalanza said he didn't ask Larry to look for any other missing items after Larry had mentioned the missing credit card.


11:42 a.m.: Tabalanza said he has not spoken to anyone with the Chula Vista Police Department.


11:28 a.m.: Tabalanza again said Larry did not show any reaction when he arrived at the Millete home on Jan. 9, 2021.

Tabalanza told Martinez that when he entered the house, he asked Larry right away where Maya was. Tabalanza said Larry told him that Maya was upstairs, and he just proceeded to go upstairs with Larry right behind him.

Martinez asked if he remembered if Larry was wearing an outfit without pockets on that day, Tabalanza said he didn't recall. Martinez brought up this question because she asked if Tabalanza remembered whether Larry pulled a key to the door from his pocket.

Asked what he did at the Millete home while waiting for Maya to return, Tabalanza said through his interpreter, "I just kept crying."


11:17 a.m.: Speaking about the Jan. 4, 2021, conversation he had with Larry, Tabalanza told the defense that Larry told him there was no need to come to the Millete home. A short time later, Tabalanza said he received a phone call from Maya and she asked why he wasn't coming over. He said he explained to her that Larry said his aunt would be there to watch the children.


11:10 a.m.: Martinez asked Tabalanza if he lived with Larry and Maya when he first arrived in California, and he said yes. Tabalanza said he lived with them for "maybe over a month."


11:02 a.m.: Prosecution ends questioning. Larry Millete's attorney, Bonita Martinez, will begin her cross-examination.

Wow - the Chula Vista police have never spoken with him?
 
  • #399
RE: Maya's note to Larry

The note is headed with a handwritten
date of Aug. 27, 2020.

Dear Larry,

You are right. I am not myself anymore. I've turned into this bitter, angry person who is careless with her words. But that's what our marriage has turned me into, and I hate it. I hate that you get me so angry all the time and you speak so righteous while I speak so bitterly.

You want to keep trying too, but each time I'm outside the house and not within your view, we are fighting. It is unhealthy. It's toxic. We need to change, but with the kids in mind, I want to be happy, and happy is not with you. We cannot be doing the same thing expecting the same results.

I've been gone mentally and emotionally for a very long time, which you failed to notice until I found the strength to initiate physically leaving.

I read this and I thought maybe you consider it.

"The EGO says once everything falls into place, I'll find peace. The spirit says find peace and everything will fall into place."

Let me find my peace; I cannot find it with you.

Maya
So sad. Trying to reason with a very disordered person who could not respect this healthy decision.
 
  • #400
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